Short and Sweet.

Been on a few dates with women whom i'd lay, and each ends the same, with me doing some autistic shit instead of escalating.

Prime example: I take girl I met a while ago out on a small date / get-together. Goes well, I drive her back to her place. We sit in car for a few minutes, No escalation. She invites me into her place, I go inside. Sit on couch, she sits with me. No escalation. Even though she sends some pretty clear IOI's she wants my dick but waits for me to make the first move. We talk about meaningless shit then I leave. Am I a pussy? Is it in my head?