Why do we have beta tendencies?

chazthundergut · 2018-02-11T21:43:26+00:00

You're not horny enough. You are having your sexual needs met by porn, and this makes you over-emotional and less sexually charged when you're around chicks. Stop watching porn.
You're too needy. You don't have enough options, and this makes you act in a way that is desperate and unattractive. Fuck other women. Spin plates. Develop abundance.
You've put her on a pedestal. You need to stop thinking of chicks as being "better" than you. Chicks are lucky to be with you, not the other way around. You are the prize. And if you're not the prize, then you need to become the prize.

abdada · 2018-02-11T20:34:06+00:00

We project desire for that which we lack in ourselves commonly.

For example, I’m actually an ugly motherfucker but I feel like I’m hotter than anyone else. So I don’t see hot women as hot. I see them as good accessories to my hotterness.

Because they know I’m ugly but carry myself as hot they eat it up. They mirror my own self esteem and need it themselves because they fear that they’re not hot enough.

MattyAnon · 2018-02-11T20:45:04+00:00

Where do these tendencies come from? Why do we think like this?

Most men are in the bottom 90%. These men have to pay. Your genetics don't care, they want you to reproduce, so you feel inclined to pay. It works.

In a village of 100 people and 10 available girls of breeding age, your beta tendencies are maximally effective. Scarcity is real.

In a village of 7 billion people with women validated out of their ass, you're better off capitalising on your opportunities than providing.

Always focus on HOW MANY women there available to you, rather than chasing THIS ONE SPECIAL GIRL.

Kalepsis · 2018-02-11T21:44:07+00:00

In my opinion, it's because there are too many humans on the planet and this is nature's way of telling us that only 1 out of 25 or so people should breed.

Same reason for the rise in congenital diseases, asexuality, and homosexuality.

kick6 · 2018-02-11T22:54:39+00:00

You've been programmed by society, but most importantly your parents, to play by those rules. Why? Because prior to the sexual revolution of the 60s...they worked for your average dude to land an average wife.

CutLiver · 2018-02-11T23:35:10+00:00

Because tv, movies, and society in general have been pushing this shit on men for the last few decades. It's like that scene in every teen movie where the guy stands outside a girl's house and holds a boombox up playing a love song. The media writes it because it seems romantic, but in real life it's just pathetic.

nardwannabe · 2018-02-12T01:12:38+00:00

theres nothing wrong with saying that it's a mans nature to want to get a beautiful woman to procreate. However since the majority of guys (nice guys/betas) say those things to try to get something in return, (sex) it comes of as ungenuine which turns a woman off. If said genuinely and in the appropriate context, compliments like that can actually help. (Models by mark Manson talks about this)

Tzeentch_Gnosis · 2018-02-12T03:57:45+00:00

Holmstrom (1992) summarizes his review by saying that indirect strategies were observed among female great apes during the following three circumstances:

In the power struggle among females, by cannibalistically feeding on the competitor's offspring;

against the male, in sexual contexts by refusal of cooperation to sexual access; also in competition for food, and feeding on the male's offspring;

through the offspring, by rearing the young and transmitting models of behavior from one generation to the next.

The female thus prevents and restrains certain kinds of action in the offspring, permitting and favoring others. Accordingly, the social intelligence of higher primates should not be underestimated. As Byrne and Whiten (1987) have shown, chimpanzees are also fully capable of faking nonverbal signals, in order to deceive competitors.

Read the Anatomy of Female Power

redd_reality · 2018-02-12T04:41:16+00:00

It's the truth, isn't it?

There is nothing wrong with telling a girl you think she's attractive and you like spending time with her.

The problem arises when you become dependent on her attention and validation.

If you're an independent man with his career or purpose as your main priority with women in second place, they can tell. When you give genuine compliments they're thrilled because they can sense your sincerity; your compliment is legitimate and it's coming from an alpha, non-needy man. This is what turns women into pudding in your hand.

YasserZe · 2018-02-12T12:37:43+00:00

Female conditioning

Andgelyo · 2018-02-11T23:24:23+00:00

Because it’s in your dna beta boy, alphas never think like that. Not serious obviously lol just think of her a Normal human being, or an old friend

Title	Why do we have beta tendencies?
Author	3d_truth
Upvotes	21
Comments	27
Date	February 11, 2018 8:33 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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