"You're really attractive"

MattAmoroso · 2014-09-10T01:40:37+00:00

"you have excellent taste" "I appreciate your honesty" "True... if I were humble, I'd be perfect."

HardPillToSwallow · 2014-09-10T01:27:17+00:00

Hmm, interesting.

"I know" - Very cocky/arrogant. Has potential as a response.

"Thanks." - rapport shutdown, puts the onus on her to continue again.

"Tell me more" - Leading, opens up an opportunity for her to shit test you, which if you pass can go well.

"So drinks at xplace at ytime then, heres my digits 1230987654 ;)" - Shows confidence, no bullshit approach.

I'm not sure which of these is the best, or if they are the best but they are ways I would think about responding if I were in your shoes. Hope it helps.

mrpoopistan · 2014-09-10T03:04:40+00:00

I'm partial to a simple "thank you".

I've found that when women don't get the effusive response that they expect that all kinds of shit starts going through their heads.

niczar · 2014-09-10T09:44:47+00:00

Ok there's lots of advice here that I think is rather bad, if not terrible. Now I'll be the first to admit that I haven't done Tinder yet, and I'm going to defer to those of you who have specific experience with the medium. That being said, I have quite a bit of experience with game, and I've gotten to know a few top level players (some of them outrageously successful) very well and observe what they were doing with a critical eye.

Consider this response for example: "I know." It's not what a young, handsome and confident Harrison Ford would say to a fan he'd just met. She knows he knows. No, that's what Han Solo says to the bratty, entitled Princess Leia who's constantly shit testing him. (And before you point out it's fiction, keep in mind that this line was improvised by Ford, and that good actors are able to put themselves in the shoes of their characters, method acting yadda yadda).

Imagine the actor wants to fuck that fan. Ask yourself, what would turn her off? She's physically attracted. He's confident, high SMV and thus needs no more display of alpha-ness. No, the only thing stopping her is insecurity. She needs to feel a bit special, so she can reassure herself that she's not the slut she actually is: "oh I'm the ONE he chose to fuck because I'm great, not just because I'm the nearest vagina!" Being cocky can only hurt him at this point.

There was a thread on TRP about a book on Bill Clinton. He would often be complimented by admirers. His response was not to be a dick about it, his response was to act flattered and thankful. People love him for that kind of shit. It's true confidence.

I used to hang out with a very successful player who was over the top. He was rather good looking, but not extremely so. He was the epitome of cocky and funny. He would call himself handsome, joke about the girls we met being wet for him and the likes. He was very confident alright, but the girls we met didn't know him. So he was polarizing them as fast as possible. Some hated it, no big deal because some loved it and we would be at my appartment within 2 hours fucking them. I'm not exagerating.

Here you have someone who's already positive about you. You don't need to polarize her. She's somewhat into you. Being cocky can only work against you at that point. You just need to be leading her where you want her, not shove her around.

AlphaAsFAQ · 2014-09-10T01:41:53+00:00

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HS-Thompson · 2014-09-10T02:30:08+00:00

It's a little nuclear but you can say something like "Fair enough. Do you have any better pics of yourself?"

secret_barber · 2014-09-10T14:03:13+00:00

Flattery will get you everywhere!

SkorchZang · 2014-09-10T01:37:18+00:00

"good taste babe"

forgetful_storytellr · 2014-09-10T03:51:11+00:00

set up the date. don't even acknowledge it.

OG-Wyze · 2014-09-10T11:49:30+00:00

I always go with "I know", I've been told this multiple times. I also get tons of compliments on "My pretty blue eyes". Saying I know is stating I've been told this before, I'm also aware of my looks and my performance reflects this.

Also I like the response "So drinks at xplace at ytime. But I would change it to "So I guess that means you wouldn't mind getting drinks at x place at y time gives digits call me" I will actually try this one day.

Ahhh i Just noticed you get told this on tindr, I get told this on the street lol. The face baby, it sells the package.

[deleted] · 2014-09-10T09:19:33+00:00

Thanks, coffee at <your local starbucks> at 7?

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TheReason13 · 2014-09-10T12:46:37+00:00

The cocky and playfully arrogant response is the most effective response. Always. Modesty dries her up instantaneously. A few personal encounters of mine ill use as examples.

Girl: "Reason, has anyone ever told you how sexy you are?"

Me: "All the time."

Girl: "You should stop thinking you're the answer to every girls dreams, you're so shallow! You'll never find a woman who will put up with your disgusting manners."

Me: "I don't think it, I know it." (I fucked her in a laundry service restroom days later)

Girl: "I don't know why you're so cocky, you're not even that hot."

Me: "You basically just told me that I'm hot."

Girl: That's not what I me...

Me: (interupting playfully) "Too late. By the way I love your dress, are you amish?" (Slight Neg)

xRedShadowx · 2014-09-10T15:04:29+00:00

"You haven't even seen me naked yet"

RedPillington · 2014-09-10T04:09:51+00:00

"yeah i just got my hair did"

"u liek?????????"

"it's all part of my plan"

most people say 2/3 ratio rule, but i just say each text has to be short. you can send a bunch in a row if it's funny. it works for me, i think it makes me look like it's all off the top of my head whether i plan it or not. i am witty and very very strong verbally so i don't know how this works for others.

bobbybluepill · 2014-09-10T02:12:17+00:00

Interesting...

I'm going to throw a mini-FR in here. This past weekend, I talked to a good amount of HBs in a local bar. The front of the bar is basically a square room which leads into a butt-funnel to the back of the bar, which is very large with tables, pillars, etc.

So, I'm in the front because it's easier to talk. I mack HBs and I'm having successful opens, but my kino isn't going so well. I get tired of it and decide to "pose" in the middle. I'm literally striking poses as if I'm a model and casually drinking while my boys are still macking.

Well, I'd kind of macked the perimeter of this boxy room and I guess the lower value girls took note. I posed for about 35 minutes like this and THREE solid 6s approached me. ALL of their Approach lines involved telling me how attractive I was. One girl just grabbed me and said, "I had to tell you, you're the hottest guy in here right now!"

My reply was just, "Thanks, what's your name?" to all of them. And then, I was the one who shut them down (I won't fuck 6s).

Interesting shit though because this never really happens to me. But then again, I don't Approach 6s...

Should I make this a separate thread?

Title	"You're really attractive"
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Date	September 10, 2014 1:16 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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