I’m 26, she’s 32, confident, mysterious, and already calling me “papi.” We’ve talked about sex a lot, so the vibe is clearly there. But she does not wants to "rush things" and if i go too far she slows me down (in the phone obv).

I’m staying at a hotel and want the transition to feel natural, not forced or cringe.

We will have dinner first and the restaurant has a club inside and after dinner we will drink some, dance and all.

Looking for advice:
– How to make it smooth and masculine without being pushy?
– Lines or cues that usually work with older, confident women?

Any tips appreciated.