I've been going out with multiple women these past few weeks, some dates went great and some stopped at 1.

But there's one particular girl that I've gone on 3 dates with

-1st date was at a restaurant that ended in kisses

-2nd date was at a restaurant that ended in sex at hers

-3rd date was at a movie theatre that ended in making out at hers

I initiated all 3, I paid for all 3 (she offered to pay multiple times on the 2nd and 3rd date)

I'm thinking I don't want to get too attached or let this cut into my own hobbies/interests. I am considering hitting her with a text message that goes something along the lines of "the ball is in your court" , or maybe just not texting her at all until she contacts me first

I'd like for her to initiate interest in a 4th date, just to establish some balance. I am willing to lose her if not because I'm personally not comfortable with a constant chase.

Thoughts?