A bad habit you can stop doing to reduce overinvestment/neediness

ForeskinsForever · 2014-02-04T05:32:49+00:00

...This is completely true. Every time I tell my friends about a girl I fuck it up but when I'm more discreet my success rates are way higher

HappyJerk · 2014-02-04T13:41:27+00:00

There was some study that said that if you TELL somebody you're going to do something its less likely that you actually do it.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-02-04T13:56:40+00:00

Yeah... nowadays numbers mean nothing. Before I would flip whenever I got a number. Now i'd literally just add it and be like whatever.

atreestump1 · 2014-02-04T15:56:43+00:00

I used to have this problem... I still do sometimes.

I found that talking to multiple women at a time makes each woman think that you have a life, and you're busy, even when you're not.. Your attention is dispersed so you never come off as needy. When I wasn't racking in the numbers, I'd keep a coin or dice on me, and after I got a text from her, I'd flip the coin if it was heads, I'd text back right away, if it was tails, I'd wait 5 minutes. That way, even though I'd REALLY want to be with her, it wouldn't seem like I was too eager.

Setsa · 2014-02-04T07:22:08+00:00

One thing I read on here that always stuck with me is that you know you are putting a lady on a pedestal when you start talking about her even though you do not know her. A number is just a number and flirtiness has to be taken at face value.

throwawaysundayz · 2014-02-04T13:22:19+00:00

Wow. I needed to hear this too, even though I know I do this all the time... that excitement weighs on me until I need to spill it to anyone who will listen.

Bat_001 · 2014-02-04T14:57:07+00:00

What about when you have the opposite issue? Where I underinvest because I know there's an abundance. I'm in an open relationship now and I'm struggling to expose myself in a sense

Title	A bad habit you can stop doing to reduce overinvestment/neediness
Author	YetzirahToAhssiah
Upvotes	20
Comments	15
Date	February 4, 2014 2:06 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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