A different perspective on texting

krakarot · 2014-11-13T21:17:50+00:00

Now the next morning I start relentless sexting her. No pity at this point. Make it juicy... Just constant graphic sex on her phone... After a few hours of this treatment, she will literally beg you to fuck her. She will tell you how constantly wet she is, how she can't stop thinking about you and how constantly distracted she is, etc.

okay for the sake of not harassing could you tell me about when you do start sexting- is there foreshadowing, is it just bam here you go 15 messages, do you ask her if you want to tell her a story (obviously not like "hey do you wanna hear a story", you know what I mean here,) do you just send one vague message to gauge interest-not very explicit, do you send a lurid message or two to gauge interest and then sext, etc. lots of options.

Also do you find it better, especially when they don't indicate their preference, when you "narrate" so to speak and they receive a detailed "story/what I would do to you" in batches or do you include them and its a 1 by 1 quick discussion style thing. I tend to think it varies on the person but overall I get most out of it when I narrate 80% of it and they butt in when they get into it.

I ask because this is potentially an incredible strategy for me as I legitimately became really really good at sexting one time when I was out in the sticks for two months with naught but 30kbps and geriatrics... but I haven't really used it since especially not on people I just met because I really don't need the creeper tag put on me, especially if it can be supported by evidence. How do you avoid this?

add-on: I do agree that /r/seduction is way too much against sexting too, especially considering imo by far the easiest way to get them to call you back and think of you and develop FWBs from a casual one or two time lay is if you're good at it. If you're good at sexting you are instantly waaaay more memorable and women will, if you're good, sometimes go back and read through it. At least in my experience.

ibuprofiend · 2014-11-13T20:23:03+00:00

I think text game is going to evolve because texting is now a lot of people's primary form of communication. Many girls have been texting 24/7 for years and consider it normal to keep in touch with people that way, so the standard advice of "just send her a date and place, don't use verbs or anything or you'll look like a tryhard and get friendzoned" doesn't always apply.

rabbitriven · 2014-11-13T21:59:03+00:00

Could you possible provide just a few examples, I get the general gist but I'm still kind of confused and usually examples help clear it out. No specific questions am afraid.

If you wanna provide and screen caps, or maybe just general dialogue much appreciated :)

PMCSWA · 2014-11-13T19:48:04+00:00

You know, apart from the "Always start slow and vague to finish specific and dirty.", I didn't really learn anything practical from this post.

SexySmexxy · 2014-11-13T20:06:33+00:00

But in many cases, I found that it was an easy and quick way to access the girl's emotions and to make her dripping wet.

Texting alone is just pretty shitty, thats what the main focus is here.

OBVIOUSLY, it's not a rule.

It's just that the majority of people who need help from "PUA's" , a term i wish people didn't identify themselves with are new to the whole socialising and making moves with women thing which is why they tend to be pretty fucking awful at texting girls and end up lowering attraction between actual meetups.

There is no texting guide for real life people which is why it's 10x easier to just tell people who have no idea how to text other people, to stop texting her outside of meeting up arrangements.

Dear_Prudence_ · 2014-11-13T20:23:25+00:00

Ya, look, I'll give you all the real deal on texting.....

Getting a number means nothing. Literally nothing. You souldn't be tripping on what to text a girl, if you are that means you're probably betting on the outcome of a slim possibility. What I'm saying is you wouldn't be trippin if you had multiple numbers, yknow?

You got one bet to put on a roulette number, you're going to think long and hard about the number. If you have 20 bets, you'll probably just randomly pick numbers.

I always 100 percent try to go for the f-close that night. Numbers mean shit to me. Jess from Rise, Kelly blond hair, Alicia likes Drake, are common shit i See in my phone Saturday or Sunday Morning.

If you do happen to miss the f-close, which you will most of the time, lol, the next day just blast texst all your numbers Hey. That's it, hey.

When they reply say some shit pertaining to the night, for example that Alicia girl that likes Drake or whatever I'll say "I just heard that new Drake song on the radio"

When they reply with hahah, lol, nice or whatever stupid shist they say, you just say what are you doing,

when they say something like oh just relaxing, recovering, studying or whatever vag shit their doing you reply wanna hang out.

That's it. Nothing more nothing less. Reply immediately. I don't care if she took 3 hours to reply you reply as soon as you see the text. You're not a bitch and you don't play that bullshit games. your'e not desperate, you're a guy that attracted this girl last night, got her number and is ready to claim what he's earned.

I don't care about what anyone else does, this is has been field tested dozens if not hundreds of times. If she doesn't want to hang out or is busy or whatever, you should have other numbers to fall back on. I'm not saying this will work 100% of the time, nothing does, but this method has outputted the highest sucess rate.

The most common shit test you'll get back in the text is "But I was so drunk last night, I was so fucked up, I don't know I was drinking"

The best reply I've got for this is, So? / Great idea, let's continue this drunk / or if she's a softy and sucker for sensitivity, "I was drunk too, but I'm still thinking about you sober"

Good luck guys.

Title	A different perspective on texting
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Date	November 13, 2014 7:38 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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