A nice reminder: Be flirty, always. Anything could be a shit test.

Mr_Smile · 2012-04-10T17:05:34+00:00

“Women love a man who is better than them, but they will accept as a substitute a man who simply thinks he is better than them.” Awesome

Pyro636 · 2012-04-10T19:54:37+00:00

I like most of these examples, but some of them are just awkward/don't make sense. Ex:

GIRL: [in an elevator] “Could you press 4?” This is just like in the movies!

Quick edit: I've heard it around here a bunch and have experienced this myself, but I think there's something to be said about balancing flirty responses with being direct and real. I know the examples he used are all separate from each other but if some of those were strung together you would eventually stop being flirty and start being pretty annoying.

CorAutMors · 2012-04-10T20:52:19+00:00

hell, even guys do shit tests all the time

MARSpu · 2012-04-10T18:10:51+00:00

The article is a good read. This point in your title doesn't do it for me though

Anything could be a shit test.

If you're being flirty or developing behaviors out of a fear, you won't see very deep change. Being flirty always because anything can be a shit test isn't a very deep developemental approach.

drastro · 2012-04-10T21:02:12+00:00

realization: act like Val Kilmer in Real Genius whenever answering questions

BudapestPUA · 2012-04-11T00:17:34+00:00

Personally i don't fucking care about shit tests. Because i didn't pass a shit test she loses interest in me? She can flush herself if so. What you should look out is questions to validate yourself. Always avoid validating yourself.

hot4belgians · 2012-04-10T22:42:05+00:00

Just to add to this because though this article is excellent it perpetuates an idea; it's not only the guy's job to be funny and the girl to laugh. If you're being funny, the girl might try to be too. You've got to laugh at her stuff too, girls are funny too and it definitely boosts their self image.

vacantbay · 2012-04-11T23:07:12+00:00

Honestly this is the worst part of my game. How the heck do I practice banter?

sithyiscool · 2012-04-11T01:43:51+00:00

Solid submission. The numerous examples posted are great for showing guys that you can (and should) be flirty WITH EVERYTHING.

For people who go, "Ugh, why didn't I think of that before hand!" you just need to practice. Do it with everything and anyone. Hell, try saying funny comebacks to thoughts you have while watching TV.

These funny quips are the VERY ESSENCE of flirting.

For anyone looking for a good outline/breakdown of these types of elements, I strongly suggest 10 Second Sexual Attraction by Mehow. He does a great job in creating categories that these attraction elements fit into easily (and others!)

Title	A nice reminder: Be flirty, always. Anything could be a shit test.
Author	dejust
Upvotes	80
Comments	23
Date	April 10, 2012 1:29 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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