Greetings, people of /r/seduction! I don't know if questions from us women folk are allowed here, but I figured I'd try.

Yesterday, I was hanging out with some acquaintances when I met a most interesting man. He's both a cage fighter and a Magic the Gathering nerd. Excellent at both mental math, and picking up chicks. He ended up back in my apartment at about 2 in the morning.

I'm 22 years old, and he was my 8th sexual partner.

He's 19, and I was about his 86th sexual partner.

It was... an alright night. It's obvious he's had a lot of practice. His body is exceptional; especially considering the fact that mine is so-so. His penis is... well, the smallest I've ever had, but it's how you use it, I suppose.

As I said, it was only an alright night. I've had better casual sex, for boring long reasons. One reason is that he and I are both submissive (although he says that he's "submissive in a way that he can be dominant if that's what his partner needs.") He didn't cum because it was cold, it was late at night, and he already had sore abs from being semi-recently kicked in the stomach. I didn't cum because I don't orgasm easily, and because he's not a naturally sexually dominant person, and I was preoccupied by thoughts of, "fuck, he isn't giving any indication of what he likes, what gives submissive promiscuous men pleasure? I'm so out of my element."

BUT ANYWAY: My question is this, man whores of /r/seduction: Let's say you live about 3 miles away from a drama-free potential hook up with whom you've already had unremarkable sex (although she is quite kinky; for example, she was recently out of town and still some bruises on her breasts from a flogger, and she made about $150 over the weekend from phone sex). After the unremarkable sex the female suggests you do it again sometime, and your reply is non-committal. Does this mean the female should not expect to fuck you again?

I prefer finding a fuck buddy (or a SO), and making it a regular thing. Sex gets better as you get to know a person's body better. And I'm only in town for about another month, so I was looking forward to this being a temporary, convenient thing. But I suspect this guy gets his thrills from having a little sex with a lot of women? That's sort of how you sort of people roll, yeah?

Also, despite his assurances that he was clean, and the fact that a condom was used, and the fact that his genitalia was shaved and didn't have oozing sores, and the fact that no fluids were exchanged, I'm pretty sure I'm going to die of Genital Plague now.

... egads, I have a tendency to ramble. I generally acquire my casual sex via the internet, for convenience reasons. I don't know how real-life Casanovas operate. So some general... hints on how these things usually play out would be nice.