AA never goes away

fuckmind · 2013-11-23T07:18:51+00:00

Anxiety is great, it's like a giant green arrow telling you exactly what you should do.

snwborder52 · 2013-11-23T06:06:57+00:00

Anxiety never goes away because approaching a woman means being vulnerable.

"Lean into the discomfort" is my mantra.

ithearrow · 2013-11-23T05:06:08+00:00

Thank you for this

Mr-E-Relevont · 2013-11-23T07:28:01+00:00

it actually does go away. with outcome independence. keep at it.

fodtp · 2013-11-23T10:19:59+00:00

Anxiety is being broke or unemployed and figure out how to feed and raise your kids. Aproaching a girl is nothing, just the beginning to meet a great person.

charm3 · 2013-11-23T10:29:24+00:00

Agreed.Think of it like this .Every night if you were to step into a pool you would feel the cold water for a bit .But the longer you stay the more your body warms up to it .Towards the end you dont really want to come out because you feel warmer inside.

Next day when you step back into the pool you'll feel cold again though :)Same for AA and momentum.

joshsway · 2013-11-23T16:20:16+00:00

It doesn't fully go away, but it can be significantly reduced with practice.

Kazdeya · 2013-11-23T08:08:07+00:00

The worst thing a girl can do is say no and that no doesn't mean there is anything inherently wrong with you. They just aren't feeling the situation or aren't into you in the same way. It's no biggie; have a friendly drink and move on the next night.

Mr-E-Relevont · 2013-11-23T09:41:18+00:00

defs a good question. if have to say somewhere between feeling boredom and enjoyment? there's two types of stress: distress(bad) and eustress (performance enhancing). guess it's up to you to decide which anxiety it is that you're experiencing.

8bitbaddy · 2013-11-23T23:20:38+00:00

brad branson has said that after he took a break from game because he was busy he started to have approach anxiety again.. which implies he had been free of it.

Nacgt_the_Elyts · 2013-11-24T02:17:29+00:00

Well, i thynk the much u matter, more strong AA will be. Just throw this Shit away! listen, undstand who you are and you importance (yes! your and these beatiful girls have the same value, you two are peoples) and just throw this away. U just need to undstand that you are the award! you know yourself, and know yours qualities, and these qualities is what you can offer to she, but yeah, she is beatiful but do she have some qualities too? or she's just an beatiful face? beatilful faces are shit, i can found a lot of them, thynk right and you will be okay dude :)

Title	AA never goes away
Author	the_visionary
Upvotes	60
Comments	27
Date	November 23, 2013 4:20 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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