Would you approach a girl you had talked to before?

Most guys would say no, especially if the girl “rejected” them. As a matter of fact, men are terrified of accidentally talking to a girl they already talked to.

This is also a convenient excuse for why a lot of guys don’t do real life approaches, saying that their city “is too small for active daygame.”

Now ask yourself - what do you think happens when you reapproach a girl? You think she gets mad, calls the police and you are ostracised from society?

Now I have been doing regular approaches in Barcelona for two years and even though it’s not a small city, it’s definitely not huge. And every week I re-approach about 3-4 girls I have already talked to in the past. It happens accidentally for me because after having done thousands of approaches you don’t really remember most faces.

As a matter of fact, a few weeks ago I was filming infield videos for my channel and I got a number from a girl, and it turned out I already had her in my contacts. We both didn’t even remember each other until she realised she was already in my contacts (because more than a year had passed). You can see the video here.

Last week I reapproached another girl to whom I had spoken to 6 months ago - I didn’t remember her but she remembered me. She was actually very happy to see me, so I asked why didn’t we go out before. She told me it was because she had a boyfriend and it turns out now she is single, so we’re texting and hopefully I will get her out next week. As a matter of fact, I can recall on top of my head a few times I landed a date from reapproaching a girl.

So the truth is - nothing bad happens when you reapproach. Actually the opposite - if you have solid dating social skills and good game, they will be happy to see you again. And if you didn’t get a date before for some reason (she had a bf, she was not in mood for dating etc), you have another shot.

And sometimes they won’t even remember you - so stop being self absorbed thinking that the whole world is watching you doing daygame. No one cares but you. The girl has her own problems and her own stuff to deal with, so don’t overanalyse the situation.

Bottom line if you see a girl you want to talk to, go talk to her. If you think you have talked to her before - go anyways. It can lead to something good.