Advice on flakes & ghosts

Gab1024 · 2019-06-05T06:33:49+00:00

If ghosts happen often after a date, I don't think it went well like you said. Did you flirt with her? Did you play with her emotions? Did you push-pull? Did you have deep talk connection? You didn't talk about boring platonic topics? Did you touch her? Did you escalate physically? Did you kiss her? Did you lead her? Do you know how to mix humor and being flirty? Did you show your intentions with her? Do you think you didn't seek validation from her? Etc... There's alot you probably have missed. Girls won't tell you what it is. You have to be authentic and clearly show what are your intentions with the girl and lead her.

Reformedgufestus · 2019-06-05T04:29:55+00:00

I mean you can't really do anything else can you.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-06-05T11:00:06+00:00

you go on date, it goes well, then she ghosts

Being clear, if the date went that well, the girl wouldnt "ghost or flake". So this is where self awareness needs to come into play. If someone ghosts you - let em go! Domt respond, dont reach out. Respect yourself enough to move on. And as another comment said, if if you are being ghosted after every date...then you may need to evaluate your approach, body language, social cues, etc. Becaise that means there is something women dont like

bnkrwnkr · 2019-06-05T04:52:19+00:00

Move on.

TheXXL · 2019-06-05T07:41:59+00:00

I don't feel like any girl is worth the effort to do anything other than nexting her for flaking/ghosting. If a girl really wants you, she will fight to spend time with you, it's simple as that.

Teej176 · 2019-06-07T23:59:45+00:00

Whatever you do dont react at all its your best bet

Title	Advice on flakes & ghosts
Author	Styloburner
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	June 5, 2019 4:23 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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