Not sure anyone can really help me here but it's worth a shot. I messaged all my girls yesterday to see whats up for this weekend. 6 of them said 'maybe', 3 for sunday, and 3 for monday (my days off).

So i tentatively have 6 dates. odds are enough will cancel/ flake that it wont be an issue. But its pretty frustrating to leave things in such a tentative state. some weekends everyone flakes, and some weekends too many dont flake and i end up having like 3 dates in one day (cutting short really good dates!)

I don't know if there's any specific advice that would help. But can you make any general recommendations for scheduling w/ multiple girls? or even post a link to such an article?

I feel like there's something I'm missing. Maybe if i try to force a more firm commitment? ei; 'i'll pencil you in for sunday at noon' instead of leaving things so up in the air?