Am I the only one that just FALLS FLAT when it comes to women that i genuinely like?

BudapestPUA · 2012-09-30T09:56:13+00:00

You need to rationalize those emotions. You are still needy. Having emotions for a girl before anything happened? Don't you find it silly?

But don't worry, this is one of the last parts of you AFC self. Keep on working and this gonna fade awway.

reigorius · 2012-09-30T11:47:58+00:00

Owh yeah mate. It's our eternal curse.

If I am totally not interested in a girl and not give a single fuck, they're on to me like glue.

When I like a girl, and thus give a fuck, it is the other way round. I need to give less fuck and be outcome independent.

Williebudz · 2012-09-30T09:59:23+00:00

This happens to me as well, but taking a step back and looking around how I "see" them helps me alot. Pretty much try to view them as any other girl and feel out what they like. Hope it helps.

Damn_ImGood · 2012-09-30T22:20:10+00:00

This doesn't have to be a problem. Just use direct game. You can basically say whatever you have on your mind and be honest. You don't have to over think anything just say what you feel and say it right.

For example, approach HB10, get flustered, say "Damn... I was gonna say something witty, but ur way too fuckin hot and you fucked me up. So what's ur name?" Works for me.

Headhongular · 2012-10-01T04:50:08+00:00

Whenever I find a girl i genuinely like I screw it up by trying not to screw it up... Over think everything, keep assuming she doesn't like me, then I get nervous... Budapest makes a good point though

Title	Am I the only one that just FALLS FLAT when it comes to women that i genuinely like?
Author	jswk
Upvotes	17
Comments	9
Date	September 30, 2012 9:46 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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