I was talking to this girl on Hinge. She messaged me first and we spoke for a bit. She sent quite a few messages. She’d ask a lot of questions and her messages were quite long. I said we should meet up and then she said “should we now? What should we do?” and I said let’s maybe leave it as you don’t seem interested (anything other than a solid *yes* is a *no*).

She then replied with “I could say the same for you” and “I even sent the first message smh." I then said that I rarely message first, just like how I don’t really approach either and she asked why. I said it’s pointless as I'm not a circus performer and that women go after the men they like. She then said "it’s manly etc to approach women" and I said most men shouldn’t as it's pointless. She said I was good looking so I should do it and I said that good looking isn’t enough and if I were truly good looking I wouldn't have to approach and she wouldn't be being difficult regarding meeting up.

She previously had remarked on where I was from in my profile and asked questions about it, to which I told her.

She suggested sending voice notes and I asked what her perception of what the average male experience is like on apps and she thought that men often talk to a lot of girls and only really settle down when they find someone they like. I asked if that’s genuinely what she thinks the average male experience is like as this is a very baffling sentiment to have. I then saw she unmatched after this.

Time to give up the apps as they're not working and I'm not attractive enough?