Any short guys here?

Turlast · 2015-09-20T05:43:03+00:00

If it makes you feel better, I always see guys around the 5'5" or 5'6" range of height with women all the time. I'm not going to sit up here and say taller guys don't have an advantage. They often do. Should you get into this thinking about that? No. It won't help to think like this.

I'm 5'8" and often made a big deal about my height--always hoping I could find posts of guys around my height or less getting women instead of guys who are tall. It's a temporary boost at best.

Just don't put any focus into your height. If a woman isn't attracted to you because she thinks you're short, move on to the next. Plenty of short men are fucking women as we speak. Join the fun.

MizTaKes · 2015-09-20T04:42:24+00:00

Stop making excuses and wasting time thinking about things you cant change. Deal with it and grow as a person. Girls would take a midget with game over some werido hunk that is 6'5" any day. get out there and live the grind.

lawrencep93 · 2015-09-20T10:37:21+00:00

I am 5'5, my first girlfriend was 5'8, I have slept with a few girls taller than me, even a chick who was over 6ft. Height plays a small role I will not lie if I was taller I would have slightly better success with some women, but many women are short, but it is a good handicap as in your game will get better and being short you get away with more touching as you are less scary to girls so more touch = faster results to get a girl home

DaygameCoach · 2015-09-20T14:24:10+00:00

That means you are 5'4. Stop worrying about it. Projecting confidence will get you a long way, especially when women shit test you about height. And, work on your game, approach, body language, dress style, etc.

I'm 5'6 (without shoes) and do well. I've even dated tall girls.

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ThatSpecialPlace · 2015-09-20T18:59:14+00:00

Get jacked and no one will fuck with you. I know plenty of short dudes who kill it.

Also I'm pretty sure Tom Cruise is around your height, if you need an example of the insignificance of height.

sco77 · 2015-09-22T04:56:59+00:00

Style is important, but the most important thing is to s l o w d o w n and be the coolest guy in the room. Use your height to your advantage and look women in the eye. Not being a lanky beanpole means that if your clothes fit you right they look great on you.

Smell great, walk slowly and confidently, look out at the world like you just found a hundred dollar bill.

Repeat the body language of the hot women and pay attention to where all women put themselves.

And open your eyes, your shoulders in a relaxed way, spread your gaze, invite people in.

You would be amazed at how many more women will hit on you if you seem receptive.

Now read the signs and be nice to the middle of the road girls, but not too nice to the really hot ones.

Save that for later.

angry_burmese · 2015-09-20T07:46:13+00:00

Think Peter Dinklage. He's short but he's still cool beans.

RGKaizen · 2015-09-20T03:48:07+00:00

I'm an AFC in many ways and about 5'5" in height. Even so, the last two relationships I had were with taller women. Sweep them off their feet and their mouth will be at the perfect height :)

OranReilly · 2015-09-20T12:19:54+00:00

I'm about 5'7-5'8, I've spent a lot of time beating myself up about it but after years, you realise no one gives a shit unless you draw attention to it. I'm not the tallest guy out there, I'm not the shortest either. If you think that's the only reason a girl won't be with you then you're crazy, the miniscule percentage of women who would make that decision based solely on your height are not worth the time of day!

TheGoodDock · 2015-09-21T05:02:05+00:00

I'm just about your height. Do I let that stop me?

Not necessarily. If they 6' or more, then I hesitate, but if they are just a couple inches taller than me, I don't care.

Being on the shorter side is actually an advantage when it comes to being nonthreatening. Opening becomes real easy compared to tall dominating/threatening looking men, at least I've been told. That could be completely wrong.

I have other things in my arsenal that other guys don't; I have been told that I have a disarming smile, a good laugh, a warm personality, and wit. Typical nice guy shit.

Combine that with confidence and it should be a winning recipe. I'm still working on it and by no means am a pro, but it certainly hasn't garnered any woman outright rejecting me just based on my height.

peacemakerzzz · 2015-09-20T07:12:08+00:00

I'm 5"4' and have never gone on a successful attempt to seduction. Is my height the sole cause of it? Probably.

Title	Any short guys here?
Author	AModernMan123
Upvotes	7
Comments	22
Date	September 20, 2015 1:53 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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