Approach things to talk about after starters

liftingnstuff · 2024-08-23T18:52:31+00:00

Don't ask where they're from. If you're curious about their background take your best guess and then transition it to a tease about girls from that area of the world (don't get racist).

somebadhombre · 2024-08-23T21:44:54+00:00

I feel like if holding conversation is hard then people have a lot to learn before they can try to seduce women.

I’m sitting at a cafe in rural Vermont with a laptop (visiting from a big city) and just got a girl’s number in 5 mins. She had a matcha latte, my favorite drink, so I asked her if it was any good. Not becuase I wanted to seduce her but becuase I was genuinely curious. She said it was not that great, I talked about a disappointing Matcha at another cafe nearby. She said she doesn’t know a good matcha from a bad one, so I told her I can make one for her. I do happen to have the material with the me in my hotel room, so I’m meeting for a drink and then taking her “matcha tasting” afterwards. I’m not especially attractive—a slight dad bod and I’m not white. Meanwhile she is an Eastern European woman with beautiful long blonde hair and a great body. How did I get her to agree to meet me? I asked a question I genuinely wanted an answer to, not just some dumb filler question. A dumb filler question makes people sound like JD Vance in a donut shop (look up the video). Don’t be like JD Vance. Ask questions you genuinely want answers to.

EP_CJ · 2024-08-23T18:54:01+00:00

Observations and assumptions are key

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-08-23T18:24:00+00:00

nope

daredaki-sama · 2024-08-23T20:19:34+00:00

Be curious about who they are and their opinions. Set your mindset as trying to learn about who they are.

epimpstyle · 2024-08-23T20:35:51+00:00

Just go back to the old school where they teach you what to say and how to continue after the opener with routine/scripts/jokes/gambits.

Title	Approach things to talk about after starters
Author	Amazing_Noise_5945
Upvotes	2
Comments	17
Date	August 23, 2024 4:48 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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