Approaching at the gym?

hunter32tz · 2018-04-27T14:59:33+00:00

It’s generally not going to be acceptable to do. Women are there to improve themselves and likely blowing off steam and stress from their surrounding life.

Now, if they’re clearly checking you out and staring you down, feel free to approach her in between sets, while she’s getting a drink, etc.

If she has earbuds in, you better have something seriously interesting to say on approach.

I’m pretty sure the YouTube channel HowToBeast has a video on this exact topic and it’s really good.

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-04-27T17:13:20+00:00

My rule is unless we make great eye contact and she gives me really good IOIs i just focus on GAINS

WIA20XX · 2018-04-27T18:10:00+00:00

It's long game.

First, you have to be a gym rat.
Two, you need to be the guy the gym that people know.
Three talk to everyone. Especially the old people hanging on to dear life.

Once you've established you're "that guy that talks to everyone" - you can violate the sacred space of the gym, because you're not just some creeper (like I am, lol)

From there it's social circle game, make moves that don't look like moves.

"Oh that's Ozamota, he is cool he talks to everyone."

rawbface · 2018-04-27T17:42:46+00:00

On the workout floor? Don't do it. People often want to be left alone when they are working out solo, and will quickly shut down social interaction.

In a workout class? Go for it! The social aspect of being in a class gives you a prime opportunity to show value and escalate, and plenty of material to arrange a follow up or even a date afterwards. Personally I'd recommend a boxing class, or aerobic class that uses accessories. Gives you more to work with than Zumba or spinning.

LingeringGnome · 2018-04-28T02:25:48+00:00

I like to work out at my gym. BUT, like Nekic said, if it's blaringly obvious, go for it. Otherwise you'll get a rep with the staff if they catch wind. Also depends on how much you like the gym, lol.

Marcelgerad · 2018-05-03T06:20:03+00:00

Make friends with most of the staff there, they're all usually bored and hoping for someone to talk to. It's also great because you always have someone to talk to if you work out when they're working. You can do direct approaches but be very picky about em and really only do them when you get a good approach invitation. Other then that just do easy approaches that are convenient, if you're next to her ask how her workout's going, ask if you can work in with her if she's using a machine that you want. Simple easy approaches like that.

cpt_douche · 2018-04-27T16:59:45+00:00

Do not do it.

Title	Approaching at the gym?
Author	ozamotazbuckshank
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Date	April 27, 2018 2:56 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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