As a brown guy am I worth less?

ExpensiveGrave · 2024-06-30T16:06:27+00:00

A lot of brown guys think it's cause they're brown that they're "inferior."

No, dude, it's cause you're either short, ugly, or have some other typical trait that is associated with unattractive men.

I'm rarely hearing from 6'4" Indian dudes that they're having such a hard time cause they're "brown"/Indian. It's always some guy who's average or below height, facially ugly, and/or poor physique.

Stop race blaming. I see a ton of Indian/brown dudes in NYC sleeping with tons of chicks. Newsflash - it's cause they're generally good looking and socially competent!

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-06-30T16:15:22+00:00

To some women yes you are but to others you're not. The trick is to filter out the ones who aren't interested and find the ones who are.

This actually applies to all men just to varying degrees. No one is liked by all women, everyone gets rejected it's just that some guys get rejected more than others. You'll have to deal with rejection regardless so does it really matter if it's one in 3 women who are interested in you or one in ten. If it's 1 in 10 it just means you have to approach 3 times as many girls.

The first step though is to stop feeling sorry for yourself as this is unattractive in men. Own your current situation and do what you need to do to achieve what you want without worrying about what other guys have to do.

VrilHunter · 2024-06-30T16:44:48+00:00

You're in the wrong crowd. Along with the victim card.

If chicks dont like you, then find some other chick.

Isunova · 2024-06-30T16:50:54+00:00

I’m a 5’5” brown dude and I’ve been with over 20 women. Confidence is everything.

FreeTheMarket · 2024-06-30T17:11:11+00:00

I’m a brown guy. Yes, you are a minority so your value is less to the average majority woman. Thats just the way it is. However, that’s is a generalization. There are plenty of women that like brown dudes. You’ll just have to search them out.

In the end you’re going to have to work harder and be better compared to your white counterparts. Embrace it, level up, and stop whining.

kreddit007 · 2024-06-30T17:24:53+00:00

Begone with your pity party, (I've read the comments and your responses) nobody can help you but yourself.

A therapist may help, but you must put in the work.

You need to build your sense of self before you build your body.

Remember: we don't see the world as it is, we see it as we are.

All the best, focus on making money now and continue working on yourself - if you make the right moves you'll have women wanting to sleep with you in a few years despite your ugly brown skin tone.

SeaOk4403 · 2024-06-30T15:57:23+00:00

When I was in college, I approached many girls of all ethnicity. Most Indian girls would prefer Indian guys I learned.

immaculate-vibe-s · 2024-06-30T16:21:55+00:00

Context:

I grew up in India. I came to do my undergrad here in the states. I’m brown, 5’11 and have some muscle but I’m not super jacked. I would say that I am more attractive when I want to be (I dress well and look nice by getting regular haircuts etc.) I have slept with lots of girls including blonde/brunettes. Pulled lots of really really hot white girls and dated them as well.

The issue:

The NUMBER ONE ISSUE with every Indian guy when it comes to game is BLAMING THEMSELVES AND THEIR RACE for their results and quality of women that they can get. LOTS of really really hot white girls go CRAZY for high value Indian guys. Understand that game is not about looks and is all about making a girl feel EMOTIONS that they have never felt before. Outshine all the men in her life and come out on top. If you are here telling me that you cannot get a white girl I promise it has NOTHING to do with your race. It has everything to do with yourself, personality, and outlook and attitude on life and women. There could be tones of issues - to me it looks like you have a lot of self doubt and self esteem issues (and that’s okay I still struggle with that shit). Imagine you said “I belive in myself and I can get anyone I want” an attitude like that will get you laid by hot white girls. If you are an attractive Indian you are viewed as “exotic”. If you are low value then you just fall into the low value you category just like any other average dude.

Dispel the Victim card:

“Am I genuinely inferior because I am Indian?”. To answer your question NO YOU ARE NOT. You’re playing the victim here and saying that because you are Indian there are issues with you. I want you to think outside the box for a second and see yourself as just a normal person without your race and attempt to fix that shit and start believing in your abilities. Turn the story around and be that Indian guy who just pulls hot girls on demand. Liberal white girls can go absolutely crazy for Indian guy. I have made some of them watch Bollywood movies and shit and learn Hindi. I literally tell them all about the Hindu religion. If they hated me because I’m brown then why the fuck would they date me and sleep with me??

Edit:

I read your TLDR not your post. To add on to this - these women who say “your brown so I wouldn’t want to date you” or “ethnic tax” are clearly women you do not want in your life. Even if they are friends, they are not accepting you for who you are 100%. Drop them. I want to tell you that there are sooooo many amazing people out there who think otherwise. You have so much potential.

Edit 2:

What helped me the most was reading Models by Mark Manson. Allows you to accept yourself for who you are and understand the dynamics between what qualities you need to bring out to find girls that are attracted to you. (Hint: Your race has NOTHING to do with what a girl finds attractive. It’s everything else and so much more)

MrAnonPoster · 2024-06-30T16:40:37+00:00

Your fatness, brokeness, shyness and the lack of social skills cock block you far more than your brownness

VrilHunter · 2024-06-30T16:50:30+00:00

If girls tell you "you're a great guy but..." then you're just a nice guy.

You don't get no bitches and that shows in your personality to these bitches. Girls always want a man other girls want.

Think about it deeply.

Klutzy_Custard_5402 · 2024-06-30T16:17:37+00:00

Fix your mindset and stop playing victim card. I know lots of Indian guys getting more girls than white dudes. You need to unlearn lots of things. You might have seen lots of videos on social media when an interviewer ask a girl what your preferences are in a guy, they say 6 ft, should make $1M a year blah blah. That’s less than 1%. To get white girls to date you. Get into their culture. As you said you are born and raised here but haven’t been part of the culture. How do you expect them to like you if you know nothing about them and nothing in common (unless you are very attractive) Stop blaming for something that is not in your hand. And start acting. Talk to more women.

Which_Efficiency6908 · 2024-06-30T16:39:47+00:00

White girls love Indians. Go to Europe not America. Sweden and Scandinavian countries are extremely cucked and self-hating, the men are all femboys and the women jump on anything exotic. Go where you’re appreciated. Avoid countries like America and Arab countries are full of inbred Muslims killing each other so stick with Europe for best results.

nineinchflaco · 2024-06-30T16:28:46+00:00

That’s just the dating market. White men will always be the preference for most. Anyone who denies this is clueless. Doesn’t mean you can’t still be extremely successful with women if you are not white though

Available_Bass9725 · 2024-06-30T17:27:14+00:00

western women are racist so it's going to be difficult and white men in your value category will have a comparative advantage but it is by no means something that should hold you back.

Title	As a brown guy am I worth less?
Author	IntelligentPoet746
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Comments	44
Date	June 30, 2024 3:50 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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