Through our whole lives we've seen a lot of relationships rise and fall. Many of these relationships were meant to last for many years and even for life, (that's what they tell us). But they didn't. The aftermath of the situation is that we become depressed, lost, we lack motivation and a bunch of other things (depending on each individual).

Part of seduction and getting women is to have fun while getting to know these girls, not to get attached to them like most of us men do. We’ve dated a bunch of girls during most of our lives and some got that “girlfriend status” , but did those relationships were meant to last forever? No. And they will never last. Because Love is only a feeling, it comes and goes. As we know, women will love you one day and the next day will hate you, so this proves my point. 

(If you wanna be with only 1 woman in your life, Ok. Your decision. But keep this in mind.)

I'm not telling you to never love but don't fall in love. Falling in Love and Loving are two different things. Falling in love will get you nowhere, believe me, a lot of my friends including me, have been in that place and we fuck the relationship up because we only focus on her instead of us and our goals, so NEVER FALL IN LOVE. On the other hand, Loving is the right way to approach relationships and life, you stop getting attached to everything, you just enjoy the course of life appreciating everything that comes with it, including relationships.

¿But what if I want kids and a loving mother for my child?

If that's an objective of yours then go and find that person (choose wisely), just don't approach that girl as a possession by calling her your wife. Love her but don't Fall in Love with her.

So guys enjoy life to the fullest, you only have a limited time on this planet to do the things that you like. You don't know what is after death but i'm telling you, probably there is nothing. So stop taking life for granted. Make an impact in this world. Love everything that is happening to you right now, even the negative things, because one day you will never have the opportunity to fail and try again.

(I know i'm young, but the experiences of friends, family and myself led me to have this point of view about Love in relationships. Hope it can help you with your journey)