Boring Human Being

ithearrow · 2013-12-07T02:50:52+00:00

Have you tried working out? have you tried yoga? have you tried taking karate classes? Keep trying new things, you'll find something that peaks your interest eventually.

If all else fails, go online and take a personality test, than find out what hobbies match your personality. Shy/quiet people tend to enjoy reading more than outgoing loud ones.

Afeni02 · 2013-12-07T04:47:32+00:00

Try lifting weights. Get on Ice Cream Fitness 5x5

curiosity36 · 2013-12-07T04:17:28+00:00

Check out meetup.com. You'll get tons of interesting suggestions and they're in fun group settings. I ended up at some fascinating spots. Learned about meditation, hacking, lock-picking, yoga, etc.

Pit_Sweat · 2013-12-07T03:31:03+00:00

You don't have to know what you love to do. You just have to go out and try things until you do. Just don't sit in your room. If you're a student, perfect, go to a few meetings with clubs that you think might interest you, and take it from there.

sungodra_ · 2013-12-07T08:48:42+00:00

What do you do during the day? What do you think about? I bet that's pretty interesting. Share it with other people.

I don't think anyone is truly boring. The fact that you're alive makes you pretty damn interesting to begin with.

XionGuard · 2013-12-07T09:17:46+00:00

Martial Arts, specifically mixed martial arts (MMA). Or try Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ is submission grappling and I love it). It gets you in shape, you learn how to fight and defend yourself, you become self aware, disciplined, and respectful with more confidence and less ego. MMA and BJJ is about more than just fighting, you'll know what I mean if you ever commit to it. People who do legit martial arts are very nice people, you would think the opposite because it's fighting but you'd be wrong. You'll also make friends in no time.

KidBill · 2013-12-08T03:46:12+00:00

No one is born with a passion. They're developed over time when people repeatedly put effort into something. What do you put effort in? There's gotta be something you find yourself spending time doing.

exhibitionistcouplez · 2013-12-07T09:45:40+00:00

Instead of trying to find the perfect activity that fits you, look into the activities which are available around you and go try them. Even if you don't like them, it gets you out of the house and gives you a life which you can talk about with people. You could then actually use your fruitless search for a hobby as a conversation topic if you go in with "So I've done these twenty different things looking for something I love to do and none of it fits!" and tell a story about something that went hilariously wrong or something.

And then ask a girl what she likes to do and if she wants to go do that sometime.

bangthemermaid · 2013-12-07T10:40:20+00:00

I think the best way not to be boring is never zo be bored. Look up the ted talk about 90 day challenges and maybe visit projectreddit.

Awesome things you can learn doing are rock climbing, anything theatre related, music! (Listening a lot, going to concerts, playing guitar, learning to dj, singing in a choir et cetera), geo-caching and other outdoorsy stuff that helps you balance with computer time, keeps you fit and outside.

Whatever you do make sure you take something with you while doing it. E.g.Listen to music consciously, learn artists, and styles, gather info. Even with alcohol you can do it. Learn to make cocktails, and to distinguish wines or scotches. All these things are important. Take small things seriously and learn about them. They will grow (on you).

sons_of_analspree · 2013-12-07T12:37:26+00:00

What were your hobbys before? You should see if you csn pick them back up. If your not intrested in that try something simelar. I loved drawing and making comucs when i was 16 up to 19.. then in a short time i got bored of it and quit drawing.. a year later i pickt up a guitar and started writing songs. I tell people my hobby is playing guitar and singing.. but i descoverd that my real hobby is storytelling. Be it in drawings and comics or in songs.

recyclablebantha · 2013-12-07T13:08:35+00:00

Any advice to change ones preferences and indulgences? Right now I am just plannin on getting into a hobby, even if I'm not die hard crazy in life with it, and spending time with more people

Partner dancing is awesome for being social. It's a way of being social that is actually an end unto itself. (That is, people go partner dancing just to dance.) Of course it also encourages the development of skills that help seduction but after you start learning a dance, people often find that it's really interesting on its own.

Carrington5 · 2013-12-07T16:16:56+00:00

I used to be that way too. One way I've tried to stop being boring is by finding something that I like to do. And then I try to find other things that interest me in hopes that I can be a more well rounded guy.

Josephthehun · 2013-12-07T20:20:12+00:00

I think you're perceiving what you think people will think of you. This most certainly is not always the case but can become a self prophecy. What you have could be a blessing in disguise. I'm glad you realize that you have no real physical activities like other people do and you feel like you've crossed a burned bridge in that respect. I'm going to agree with most everyone on this thread. Go find something, even if your not wowed by it and become mildly good at a lot of things. Challenge yourself to a human experiment. The second part of this is that you have to realize this self realization has room to evolve into something bigger. Everything changes and through your experiences your going to change with them, so choose wisely your next move good sir.

anopiano · 2013-12-09T14:01:02+00:00

Learn the banjo.

thericebucket · 2013-12-07T03:08:32+00:00

Try crossfit. Absolutely smoking hot babes, community/team vibe and you'll get ridiculously fit if you commit to it as well.

Title	Boring Human Being
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Upvotes	49
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Date	December 7, 2013 2:24 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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