Breakfast date: what does that mean?

dru171 · 2011-09-23T15:41:54+00:00

It means that she's setting the stage for you. This isn't a dinner date or drinks at a bar where expectations hover over your shoulders like some nosy waiter. Breakfast is safe. I'm not going to pretend I know anything about this girl, but more than likely, she's just as apprehensive and excited as you are to see where this leads. Just as scared too, I imagine. Hence breakfast.

Bring your game. Be funny and charming; don't forget to smile -- and when you do, let it show with your eyes first. Practice your stories (tell the ones that'll make her laugh) and remember to keep control of the flow of conversation. Don't try to impress. It's breakfast. Be as teasingly lighthearted as the morning. Kino.

If things are going well, have somewhere to be by noon-ish, then make sure to hook up for drinks later in the evening.

You got this brah.

RoxerSoxer · 2011-09-23T14:59:38+00:00

The only thing a breakfast date has ever been good for, is an "I'm pregnant" announcement. Luckily for you though, this doesn't seem to be the case.

frogma · 2011-09-23T17:40:17+00:00

Some guys are saying friend-zone- I don't really agree.

Breakfast is usually pretty damn intimate. I don't really go to breakfast with girls unless we fucked the night before. I know it works differently for other people, but still, I'd consider that more "special" than lunch.

This is gonna be just like any other "date," but please don't think of it as a "date." When you start thinking about it like that, you start fucking up and making it into something more difficult than it has to be.

Just go there, be cool, get in some kino if you can (try to sit next to her), and just assume she wants you. No matter what. Then feel free to tell your stories or whatever, and try to escalate a bit. Try to touch her some more and get more buddy-buddy with her, or talk about some deeper topics- anything that can turn the mood more sexual. You can't really "close" here (in most situations), but you can leave her feeling good about you.

expletive-deleted · 2011-09-23T15:18:02+00:00

It means she wants to hang out. I wouldn't consider it a date. But if you wanted to ask her out, you should come up with plans and bring them up towards the end of breakfast after you've gotten a feel for what's going on.

_zarathustra · 2011-09-23T16:07:12+00:00

The only time I went on a breakfast date was the morning after I #-closed a girl at a party. I hadn't planned on texting her so early in the morning, but she texted me that she was going to Panera and asked if I was over that way. I said sure, freaked out a bit, took a shower, then went to meet her. Turns out it was a kind of group thing, her and her close-gay-guy-friend. It was super casual, we just chatted about the night and I teased her about some of the things she said when she was drunk. Got the close-gay-guy-friend to help in the teasing so I built rapport with him.

Wasn't really a situation qualifying for kino or anything, but it was still worth it to show how flexible my awesomeness is.

thedonkdonk · 2011-09-23T16:58:49+00:00

go to breakfast "cause she hasn't heard any of my stories"

Wow, awesome. I use that same line often. I works well. Be careful, she might out seduce you.

assholebiker · 2011-09-23T17:53:35+00:00

Breakfast = casual = safe. There's 0 chance of alcohol becoming involved and/or it ending at someone's place.

mytuppence · 2011-09-23T20:15:49+00:00

I can't tell you what breakfast means to her or you or anyone else. I can tell you it doesn't matter what it is, it matters where it's going. Bring your game and if she's receptive, escalate. If not, on to the next one. Good luck player.

RESET-REWIND · 2011-09-23T15:30:29+00:00

Style says any 1-on-1 interaction with a woman you can consider a date (something I don't quite agree with). This sounds kind of friend zone-y, but I don't know enough details to make a judgement on that.

Just have fun. Escalating may be hard in a breakfast situation (more casual, not quite as intimate). Make sure to set up for a second date where you'll have a better opportunity to push for more.

This is assuming you want to get into her pants of course.

Hormander · 2011-09-23T16:22:48+00:00

Breakfast? This seems friendzonish.

In my opinion, don't lose your time, stay at home for the breakfast and eat your favorite cereals while watching TV.

dj_bizarro · 2011-09-23T21:11:59+00:00

guys who know bout being friend zoned, are the ones calling this friend zone. if you have a defeatist attitude, you will be defeated

cody_au · 2011-09-25T11:45:13+00:00

Yep like any other date. Pick her up and spin her when you see her, then plant a quick kiss on her mouth when you drop her down, then run off arm in arm to the breakfast place, lots of kino, touching, looking into each other's eyes, then "let's cook lunch together", go shopping, get the ingredients along with some candy and a movie, back to your place, and ...

Title	Breakfast date: what does that mean?
Author	jimrussell
Upvotes	15
Comments	22
Date	September 23, 2011 2:00 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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