Can I change her mind

Rkingpin · 2019-04-24T23:39:01+00:00

As a man, to centre your life around a single girl to the point of suicide is one of the most pathetic states you can fall into

This is onetits extreme level.

Find a purpose bigger than any individual person. Make it a mission to achieve something and work towards it

Life is bigger than one female lmao

pieonthedonkey · 2019-04-24T23:11:26+00:00

If you have to change her mind, she probably isn't the one for you. If you're good looking you should be able to find a girl who makes you feel the same way she does. Just keep your mind open and give more people a chance, some people take a while to open up so patience is key here. Sorry but imo it's time to move on.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-04-25T02:19:58+00:00

1st off, this woman doesnt know you nor you her. That isnt love - that is obsession. You are holding onto an obsession of someone who you have no relationship with, and that in itself is unstable. Honestly that is scary and a red flag...so yes, it is clear why she rejected you. Do you understand that?

2ndly, you are basing your actions on how she makes YOU feel. But at any point in time have you considered HER feelings? Have you thought about how your actions may (negatively) affect HER? You send her pics of your attempted suicide. Be real with yourself - she doesnt know you like that and you send her pics like that...wouldnt she be scared, confused, freaked out?? You are not considering her side at all, you are only thinking about what you want and in an attempt to garner her attention, you in fact are being manipulative (Ive had a guy do the same to me when I turned him down).

3rd, you need to consider mental help. Going through traumatic things can really send us spiraling, and you my friend, are not acting nor thinking in a stable manner. You behavior is past the level of inexperience with relationships...I highly recommend a therapist or psychologist in order to work through whatever is going on.

CapelaBranca · 2019-04-25T00:14:52+00:00

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james-robertson · 2019-04-24T23:22:14+00:00

Hi mate,

Sorry to hear about the depression. Things will get better.

You can't change her mind. It doesn't matter how long you've had deep feelings for her, or how it's affected you, that doesn't make any difference to her. I'm not sure why you were shocked that she rejected you - especially as you start out rejection is very common.

The best way to move forwards is to start fresh with new people. I know you really feel for this one girl, but you don't want to be with someone who's not into you, and she isn't. Google "one-itis".

Over time you'll forget this first girl as you start beautiful relationships with the new girls, girls who appreciate you and return your love. Of course they are not interesting yet - you haven't met them and learned all about them yet.

The best way forward is to become a better more attractive person, and that involves meeting new women, taking care of yourself.

Good luck bro.

Title	Can I change her mind
Author	CapelaBranca
Upvotes	0
Comments	42
Date	April 24, 2019 10:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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