Can't get over the need for female validation?

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-07T16:33:58+00:00

You just need to define what success is for you. Ofc getting phone numbers, sex, free validation, and compliments are fine we all agree but as long as you do everything right you still can get no results, you don't have control over everything. That's why my main philosophy is I just wanna have fun, okay I wanna be as good as I can while having fun but the main purpose is not a number, not making out with her in 5 minutes, it's just to enjoy the process

MrBlack__ · 2022-06-07T13:10:01+00:00

It’s hard dude, there’s no cure.

It’s like being hungry

kyrensolo · 2022-06-07T14:10:03+00:00

This is how you do it .. introduce yourself to a girl, get her number and go on a date. Then go out & meet another girl, get her number and go on a date with her. After that go & meet another girl,get her number and take her out on a date as well ..

See what im saying Op? Never stop at just one. Always have a team of girls at your reach.

Treat them all like queens and before you know it you’ll be having more than one woman to get in the bed with .. you’ll have more than one woman wrapping her arms around you & kissing you .. you’ll have more than one woman calling you “babe”

This is the way i did it & from what i experienced each woman i had was MINE!!! .. i was getting laid & partying naked with girls every weekend lol ..

External_Lifeguard49 · 2022-06-07T18:25:16+00:00

You need to realise that women are fickle and a lot of what they means nothing.

Connect-Pear-3859 · 2022-06-07T12:46:11+00:00

You need to do some meditation to clear your mind.

PersimmonAccurate100 · 2022-06-07T23:05:05+00:00

i get depressed too but you cant show it to people who aren't good friends, especially girls or they will find it unattractive unless they are your therapist or something. vary rarely a woman, that you might be able to hook up with that you are attracted to, will offer emotional support and a lot of times if they do you will probably get friend zoned. I'm saying this because i learned from mistake. Sometimes you will get lucky and find one that might be your friend at first and it could develop into something more but this is very rare and usually there is some sexual attraction in the beginning . Also some women are players as well and will just be your friend because they want to get with you but if you do things that turn them off they might stop being nice to you. It sucks that this double standard exists but it is what it is and you just have to play the game unfortunately . Some people might get lucky and find something real but for the vast majority dating is kind of a minefield.

just dont let the depression get to you too much and sometimes you have to focus on work or goals instead . It cant be party/ hookup time all the time.

sexsex69420irl · 2022-06-07T15:03:29+00:00

I mean thats a good thing imo, something makes your day and light it up,but feeling sad/depressed is definitely not good, meditation and having a good normal life with purpose and hobbies and things you enjoy will help you in that.

TooMuchJibberish · 2022-06-07T18:59:01+00:00

Perhaps castration?

Billyjeanisntmylover · 2022-06-07T19:32:19+00:00

Indifference to the outcome will def fix this issue for you.

Doesn't matter if it's pertaining to women or not - this will help you go a long way.

unfinity2 · 2022-06-07T20:06:18+00:00

It’s hard. Took me over a decade to get over it.

KajTheKreator · 2022-06-07T23:50:07+00:00

Refocus your validation. Focus more on your reaching out and initiating than the response. YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CONTROL WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT YOU. The validation you're looking for is just looking for someone to confirm what you think about yourself. Does that even make sense? Does Lebron go around asking people if he should play in the NBA? No.

Get your validation from doing your best. Don't gaf what anyone thinks because they don't and never will know who you truly are. They only will have an idea and will go off that.

SOMNIAT0 · 2022-06-08T00:32:37+00:00

You don’t need these women, bro. Don’t let it get to your head if it’s really bothering you.

yeahthatslifedarling · 2022-06-08T04:47:28+00:00

When you start giving validation to yourself, you won't feel the need to get it from others.

Environmental_Cress2 · 2022-06-08T07:00:29+00:00

you won’t get over it until you get it and realize it ain’t shit

Title	Can't get over the need for female validation?
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Upvotes	24
Comments	23
Date	June 7, 2022 12:21 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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