Can’t wait to go in field

ThrowRaForest · 2020-05-17T17:01:13+00:00

Do not go in expecting to be the master pua. It takes work, know you're going to have failure. But it takes big balls to put yourself out there and make yourself vulnerable. Best of luck

lukasbo7800 · 2020-05-17T09:14:24+00:00

A little bit of advice here - keep your expectations low. All those guys have years of experience in dating women, they've been rejected hundreds if not thousands times. The true wisdom comes from failures. You can listen to what they're saying, be learning from them for hours and still be failing to succeed. It's good to have faith in yourself but do not expect to get laid with the very first girl you'll meet. I don't know about other guys you have mentioned but AMS is fairly good looking, fit, charismatic guy who lives in abundance mindset and is making six figures a year. Even for somebody who doesn't know about him he may look like a somebody who is truly on his purpose by the way I've described him. And he still gets rejected. But I can guarantee you that he does not give a thing about it. He just learns from it and moves on. That's the abundance mindset. You can't learn it you have to develop it by yourself and the best way to do that is to get on your purpose. I used to watch his videos and thought how easy it's going to be now that I know all those tricks and tips and I couldn't wait to succeed. Well I did not. I used everything he said and still failed. And failed again. And again. Eventually I stopped chatting up girls and started hitting the gym, started making money, learnt to play guitar and next month I'm buying my first apartment. And the funny thing is that I stopped caring about women, I fell in love with myself and my purpose in my life. I don't have time for girls at the moment and I don't feel like something is missing in my life.

earsurgery9 · 2020-05-17T13:44:17+00:00

what do you think you've learnt in practical terms out of interest?

Imagine appraoching a girl in a bar. How will you open a lead the convo? What sort of tricks do you have up your sleeve if she doesn't seem interested in you?

smoothmax · 2020-05-17T15:13:21+00:00

IMHO the more glib, self assured and the faster that a PUA coach talks, the more of a con man he is. The coaches I like the most speak much slower, give off a cool but very relaxed vibe, and are a little bit self deprecating. Their infields are a little bit hesitant, they listen respectfully and they seldom toss out canned lines and needless teases, negs or contrived compliments.

Title	Can’t wait to go in field
Author	vamsig66
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	May 17, 2020 1:12 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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