Clubbing alone tonight... nervous

kebabwhy · 2017-07-20T17:01:16+00:00

Stop giving a fuck. Stop overthinking. Find a girl, introduce yourself, open (compliment/neg whatever, I've found complimenting them, and then teasing them about something inane works best, negs always seem too backhanded to me, and teasing them about tiny earlobes or their eye color makes them feel included rather than judged)then have a conversation, alternate open and closed ended questions (about her, she will inevitably ask about you, when she does answer honestly, then try to bring it back to her) and don't be afraid to be sexual, just know the limit. Most of all stop worrying and start thinking like an absurdist. It's not a nightclub full of hot chicks who want nothing to do with you, It's a dark building filled with flashing lights, alcohol and a bunch of other people, just like you, trying to be not be lonely for the night, all trying to fill a hole on the inside. Everything is perspective. Quick reminder before I go, don't overthink, once you have a solution or a plan, stop thinking, and when the opportunity is revealed, do.

PS: Stop putting random PUAs who make youtube videos on a pedestal, you shouldn't do it with women, doing it to other dudes is just gonna fuck with your head more. Also Julien (whoever the fuck that is) is not impressive because he goes out alone "20%" of the time, that means 80% percent of the time he needs a posse to feel confident. My best advice, start working on your "self game".

fatClaus · 2017-07-20T17:03:28+00:00

Start talking to people as soon as you leave your door

ghlibisk · 2017-07-20T21:22:13+00:00

Meeting people is not the primary goal. Having fun is. Why the fuck would you go if it to have a fun time? Meeting people will be a side effect of that.

PeperoParty · 2017-07-20T21:38:31+00:00

It's easier to talk to girls because you actually want to talk to them ;)

804079 · 2017-07-21T10:39:47+00:00

How did it go?

Title	Clubbing alone tonight... nervous
Author	souljabri557
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	July 20, 2017 4:34 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6ohekm/clubbing_alone_tonight_nervous/
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