Hi guys,
I just moved into my college dorm and the girls here are extremely attractive and outgoing/fun (it's sort of a sorority type of group, but my school doesn't have "sororities" so this dorm is an unofficial sorority house -- but because it's unofficial, it's coed). A lot of seddit's advice applies only to meeting girls for the first time, be it night game or day game, but doesn't really touch on how you should act just in general as you interact with girls over long periods of time.
So, I'm looking for advice in that -- how do I attract girls over a long period of time (months)? Not that I wouldn't try to make it happen earlier -- it's just that until I get an opportunity, I'll still be talking to these girls, so I want to be attractive to them throughout.
So far, I think it's obvious that the general guiding principles of confidence, eye contact, and kino still apply, though I'd likely have to go slower on the kino in most non-pregame/party situations.
My worry is getting stuck in the friendzone -- and the general techniques to avoid the friendzone don't fully apply here (i've heard things like "within minutes into the interaction set up a sexual frame", etc, but it would be wierd to try to set up a sexual frame when I'm just meeting a girl who lives down the hall while passing in the lounge, you know?).
So my question is a more personality, wholistic thing: What sort of guiding rules for personality/conversation should I follow to attract these girls? I know "confidence", but i'm looking for a little more specifics than that -- I'm a pretty funny guy, so I could just be joking around a lot, but I'm worried that will get me in the friendzone due to the circumstances of dorm life.
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