Common advice is to spark emotions… examples?

Dandys3107 · 2024-12-10T17:59:53+00:00

Generally it is about changing your mindset, from extracting information and following the code towards stepping out of the template, choosing topics and activities that trigger variety of emotions, maximizing fun, breaking barriers, pursuing unique and honest experience. I guess for many guys it would be a good idea as a first step to identify what emotions really are, like happy, relaxed, surprised, relieved, curious, confused, annoyed, amused, tense etc. Then you should figure out which situations or words can trigger such responses. For my personal take, I would say the most important thing is about initial attitude. When I have a date I don't really think about specific topics or ways to get the girl interested. Instead I stay present and look for opportunities how to make the most of our meeting, with challenging and amusing conversation, engaging activities, raising energy level, unpredictable turns, playing with tension between us, testing if we are a good match. If I can manage to make a girl play along and achieve some synergy, we have a deal. If a girl is not catching the vibe and we can't get anything going, there is no point to struggle or forcefully pursue. Connection needs to be natural to significant extent, no rigid formula or words will work for you in the long term.

toporagno13 · 2024-12-10T14:27:13+00:00

Sarcasm, witty jokes, emotional anchors, making her run her fantasy, imagining future together...

HomelessMilkman · 2024-12-10T17:36:50+00:00

It's about 'sparking emotions' in yourself.

You want to be loose and animated, You want to be actually enjoying expressing yourself.

How many different ways could you say "yes"? Guys only got one; a plain, bland, "yes". You can shout, you can stretch the word, you can whisper, you can say it in shock, you can dramatically throw your arms in the air as you say it, you can play around with your expression and make it more interesting than the absolute minimum. Put some 'sauce' on it, present, theatrics, etc.

The bar is really low, you don't hace to go crazy but you have to present something more interesting than the same monotone delivery. You need some kind of 'range of expression' to keep people engaged because how long could hearing/seeing vaguely the same thing hold anyones attention?

ConcernMinute9608 · 2024-12-10T19:35:25+00:00

As somebody who does in person cold sales I can say it’s all about how you view the situation since that reflects your charisma. The best way I can describe it is before you have the dialogue you almost feel like smiling and you feel very warm. That’s how to do it but I guess the answer is to use your emotions to spark theirs. You’re combining emotions to grow them together.

Edit: if you want to fake it then smile with your eyes slightly but consistently when in viewing distance and there’s a chance the other person will lead with positive emotions which will build yours.

EducationalMeeting95 · 2024-12-10T16:48:04+00:00

I'll say, just stay relaxed and have fun while talking to em.

Do this enough times and everything will fall in place.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-12-10T14:55:48+00:00

Before asking her questions, open it with:

I don’t think you’re the right woman I have in mind, but let me try…
You’re probably not the right woman to ask, but let me take my chance…
I’m not sure you can answer this one, but hey you can surprise me…

Nanashi_x01 · 2024-12-10T14:53:46+00:00

Spark emotions? Then do it like Sasha daygame. Although risky. I just can't do it. I would always go indirect.

kaamkerr · 2024-12-11T18:38:49+00:00

Tell her she looks fat

cemj86 · 2024-12-11T01:23:14+00:00

Have you ever tried being yourself? That works wonders for women, they notice when you're not being genuine and it sparks really good emotions when you're not like everyone else, when you're YOU.

Oh too vague? Or not a formula or magic pill?

Forgive me.

Title	Common advice is to spark emotions… examples?
Author	throwawayy77_
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Date	December 10, 2024 1:56 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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