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[–]LUClEN 29 points30 points31 points 10 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
FORD
Family Occupation Recreation Dreams
[–]toost1cky 30 points31 points32 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Now do one for Lamborghini
[–]ANAL_ANARCHY 112 points113 points114 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Length of penis
Ass size
Masterbation habits
Butt stuff
Orgasm intensity
Rated attractiveness
Gas odor
Hair level
Ideals
Nipple color/size
IQ level
[–]SteamyRiceQueen19 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I'm impressed
[–]JustHere4SomeKisses 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]fireball121 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I just read this the honest trailer guys voice.
[–]ANAL_ANARCHY 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
From trailer park boys?
[–]fireball121 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This Guy https://youtu.be/SVaD8rouJn0
[–]fitnessguy1111 8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
And never talk about RAPE Religion Abortion Politics Economics
[–]LUClEN 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tbh I like getting the politics stuff out of the way early. If we don't match on that I prefer knowing before hand
[–]ConnorGracie 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unless you are looking for the one.
[–]ThrowMUDaway 11 points12 points13 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well written guide , thanks for the post.
Also body language is a good portion of conversation so maybe adding a part in that!
[–]cmatute 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Remember kids: don't worry to try to fill up the silence. Own that silence; shows you're comfortable in your skin - it might happen that she starts the conversation again. When that happens, know that you did well.
[–]scholarly_pimp 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
These are all great but I will say that I've been partial to this list as of say, the past 6 months when I came across it.
[–]poopypantsn 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Awesome man, you really put a lot of effort into this, and it's really good! Thanks.
[–]reecewagner 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
These kind of topics really irk me. "Opening up sets", finding conversation topics... It's like we're trying to find ways to make the interaction as inauthentic as possible. Do you want to get to know this woman? Ask her things that will intuitively move this along. Lots of men are worried about women's boundaries - I leave no conversation topic off the table, first date or not, and I usually I get to know women very intimately and very quickly. If she doesn't like my conversational approach, she's not my kind of person anyways.
[–]xXxKalamityxXx 24 points25 points26 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I would like to think this is for hard case newbies or people that just want a few "safe" questions to gall back on if they stall out in field and need something to say.
[–]twitch1982 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've got a lot of experience, and this sort of thing is still handy to most people. Yes, your conversation should be smooth and seamless, but sometimes that gap in conversation comes before you're ready to escalate, and it's good to keep a couple of open ended topics in your belt to jump start with in case it stalls out.
Sometimes the other person can be kind of boring, and having small talk topics beyond the weather makes you more interesting weather you're working on a seduction, or stuck in a car with a business partner.
[–]reecewagner -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In field.. Oi.
Since I just get downvoted to shit anyways, do you all talk about your interactions with women this same way when women are present? Like they're sales targets you need to hit to get a bonus?
[–]Monkey_Jerk 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry player. Not everyone's a natural like you.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
FORD Family Occupation Recreation Dreams
That's what a guy above you said and that is actually something pretty easy for me to remember, I just stumbled into this sub reddit 5 minutes and that's actually just something that clicked really well.
[–]Ricardo909 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Topics is something I really lack about in my game and this will be very useful for me. Thank you, I save it!
[–]frenchiveruti 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amazing, thanks!
[–]CrushHazard 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a huge list, and it doesn't even contain the closest thing to a panty-dropping topic that exists: astrology.
[–]bwaugh06 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Saved
[–]Swamphobbit 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well done man. This is golden
[–]uberafc 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow this is really helpful. Thanks!
[–]secondpua 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
While these are all excellent starting points, if you want to continue a conversation trigger words is key.
[–]unicornsofluv505 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MystoganB 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
SAve for later
[–]soochosaurus 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Another topic that fits in well is one I use, "What kind of animal would you be?"
Everyone usually has a favourite and it doesn't hurt to have an answer thought of for yourself either. Also if you know some weird or basic facts about some animals you can demonstrate value this way or make them laugh with something a particular animal does, or playfully tease them for their choice as well. This is a question that hits every point OP is talking about as it can create higher value, could have a touch of controversy, it's positive in nature, and conveys a bit of personality.
[–]mimunto 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I said a tardigrade a.k.a. a water bear. Girl didn't fully understand their awesomeness.
[–]CentralValleyAsian 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Have you ever eaten (dog...)?"
Pro tip: Try to avoid that topic if the girl's Asian.
Serious note, this guide is great!
[–]CarbonCopy11 point 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Nice
[–]criveros-1 points 10 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
The more alpha you become, the more you realize you can say whatever you want
[–]stillcole 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"GET IN THE VAN!!"
[–]xXxKalamityxXx 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If your uncomfortable talking to girls your not going to understand that right away, so why not supply information to help new guys figure it out for themselves.
[–]Syntactico 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure you can, but you gotta have some contact with reality to get anywhere with the conversation. A conversation isn't just about saying stuff; it's about communicating.
Bahaha, yeah, you can say that you have fifteen girls locked up in cages in your garage and that you prefer sheep to women. As long as you are alpha, she will swoon.
[–]MisterVincentVega -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Up you go!
[+]roxxe -19 points-18 points-17 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
lol nigga, u think i'm gonna remember all of that?
just stack, let her talk ffs, if u feel the convo isnt going anywhere, STAHP , dont drag it and destroy all value you have
[–]TheRealCochise 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol you don't ask her every fucking question. If you feel it slowing down, pick it up with one of these. If you try this a few times and it doesn't feel right, pick up and take off.
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