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[–]ChicoBrillo 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Man I used to be an OLD defender but it really seems to be past it’s golden era, at least for me.
I get burnt out on crowds easily but decided to go party hopping last night and had so many confidence boosting interactions.
Whereas these days OLD just thrives on making its customers feel insecure and unattractive
[–]PlayHardGoBroke 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True. OLD has its benefits though as it is a numbers game after all, I have been single 3 months and most of the girls I have slept with I met online, but I know the best interactions will come face to face
[–]bocank 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It should have been obvious: online, text and to a degree voice communication lacks the ability to transfer emotions.
Emotional transference can only manifest itself through physical interaction.
[–]5_7pickup 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OLD can be more effective and efficient but most guys never reach that point. It’s a very superficial game with OLD so you gotta follow rules 1 and 2 first.
I found my greatest success via IRL cold approach as well.
[–]IrrelevantAfro1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I’m black tho
[–]abdeezy112 -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The thing with OLD is you have to make sure your photos are on point.
OLD DOES work if done correctly.
[–]g3wb3r 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do both .. its not a question of one or the other
[–]eszibit 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very true, and if you're not in the top 10% it can def crush your self esteem.
[–]MissionAd399 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OLD is just marketing, a way to get more leads without physically expending yourself. To be strictly an OLDer is wild to me though cause you’re sitting there waiting for someone attractive to match you when you can just go out irl and find attractive women easier and faster.
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