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seduction-ModTeam · 2022-10-11T18:14:30+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

2022-10-11T05:42:42+00:00

Tell her about Thanos and his grand plan

Icy_Recipe_3588 · 2022-10-11T05:07:51+00:00

Can you say hi?

Hartwigg · 2022-10-11T05:08:22+00:00

search on how to build social momentum first

show intent - tell her why you approached, acknowledge her friends or other people in her group "hey guys, is it okay if I flirt with her for a minute or two?"
make it relatable - "I was going into the starbucks, I saw you passing with your adorable look and had to say hi" you can comment on her clothes colors, style, the vibe they give off

ask for name, hand shake

say you gonna have a reunion or whatever with your friend in 20 minutes or half a hour and will have to go in a bit
make a comment about the vibe she gives, do she look Eastern European? say it, try not to ask, just make assumptions, do she look like a doctor? say it
ask what's she's doing right now, where she's going, etc. make a short comment about that "just casually shopping, huh?"
move the set, so say something like "can we get out of the sun for a just a moment? let's get over here" just go across the street or whatever, small step for escalating into a possible instadate in the next minutes.
if you feel she needs to keep walking talk for a bit, ask if it's okay walking with her for 5 minutes and from there you gonna go your own way

throw some random shit, be self amused. "what's your favorite disney movie?" talk about random shit, casual shit while being self amused, you should be relaxed and hold a masculine frame while doing so. boring conversantion is all you need if your non-verbal communication exudes confidence and has the rights queues.

being completely present, listen and reply, without tryin hard.

there's a lot of others important tips that can help you, but these are kinda essential in my opinion

Hvnisaplaceonerth · 2022-10-11T15:56:44+00:00

Try for eye contact first, if you have the chance. Then say something whimsical but casual that shows you’ve been observing her, specifically.

Personalized intros always make me crack a smile and say something back even if I wasn’t expecting it.

Damnator666 · 2022-10-11T07:40:19+00:00

My first thing before doing real attempts was to walk around talking to women about approach anxiety. You won't get numbers but it sure unlocked my brain a little.

tylerden · 2022-10-11T14:29:58+00:00

Speak to e everyone you meet im social situations, like the mall. Practice your confidence and the willingness to walk away.

So when you do happen to speak to a hot girl it's not forced and display you are happy to walk away. I have. Literally had women re-enterate the convo when i displayed i was leaving.

Keithlct · 2022-10-11T07:46:41+00:00

Strong eye contact that gives a sexual vibe. That's the way to go.

Jasonhardon · 2022-10-11T13:38:42+00:00

Do it enough and you’ll see the Matrix

Professional-Chain20 · 2022-10-11T17:33:20+00:00

Casual, confident approach. No dumb small talk. Make an observation, compliment lightly (nothing physical unless you like the fit, compliment her fashion sense), if you’re at the gym ask her how long she’s been lifting, what got her into it. While talking, there are a few things to keep in mind. Talk slow. Clear and concise. Speak to her directly. Have a plan for the conversation even if it’s off the cuff. Do you want a number? A friend? Just a conversation? Get clear on that before you are just verbally vomiting on her. Another thing to remember is they are very egotistical so talking about them with a little playful banter can go a long way. You first need to get your confidence up. Become physically better, emotionally better and you won’t have to come to a chat forum cuz girls will be choosing you, you’ll be turning some down and you won’t feel this scarcity.

Last things. The worst she can say is no and take it graciously and walk away if she rejects you. But she not going to because you are a confident, charismatic social person just making conversation.

minareli · 2022-10-11T12:13:45+00:00

Search 'Social Animal' on YouTube to see how to do this the proper way.

burncushlikewood · 2022-10-11T05:46:11+00:00

Learning what to say is what its all about, but as the saying goes 70% of communication is non verbal! So most of what you're communicating is not coming out of your mouth! I will post a video on conversation at the end, but make sure you have good body language when talking, stand straight, make eye contact and do not follow her, give her space. https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y

Boethiah18 · 2022-10-11T06:53:03+00:00

Check this dude out he's the absolute king of game.

https://youtu.be/2bQjfTHlwzU

Distinct_Face_5796 · 2022-10-11T17:01:30+00:00

Getting a number is easy. Getting a date is hard. Usually they give numbers to be polite and then ignore you completely. Lol.

marshall_strud · 2022-10-11T17:42:52+00:00

Say what ever comes to mind. Most important thing is be congruent

Fiftyonefourty9 · 2022-10-11T18:05:40+00:00

Ask them if they’ve heard the Tragedy of Darth Plaeguis the wise

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