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[–][deleted] 46 points47 points48 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She felt the exhilaration of hormones and now that she is away from you, those have leveled off. What do you want here exactly? To love to Europe and marry her? Cummon man, there is no LDR. That's just a lie to lull yourself to sleep at night. Tell her that you've had the most amazing 3 days in NYC with her and hope to cross paths again one day. And leave it at that.
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[–]Superb-End6273 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your mistaken, many younger woman are looking to explore and have fun. Their mindset is to have fun now and get serious later. And you my friend were just another one of those "just for fun" guys to her.
[–]RedditsOlderBrah 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Shit honestly, i would have liked to get her to move to the states. So we can try something serious
you sound completely fucking unhinged my man. you're 26 not 12.
[–]mjornir 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You know how dudes get post nut clarity and then switch up on the girl and change energy? Sometimes girls do that to guys too. Happens, march forward
[–]aterrifyingfish 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In my experience it happens to girls a lot more than it happens to me to be honest. I don’t really hook up with people I don’t like the personalities of though.
[–]omega05 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I want her to move to the States for me. Come on bro. You fucked her. Be happy and move on
[–]Baked-As-A-Cake 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link
Is she still on vacation? She might be busy, homie. Don't overthink it. If she truly has lost interest, you'll find out. But if she's just busy you might make yourself look needy. Just be patient and see.
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[–]Baked-As-A-Cake 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Then MAYBE after this encounter, you'll realize that what you've been assuming is dead ass wrong, homie. She came here to model and seize an opportunity, you were a bonus, but her eyes are on the prize... If shit goes well, shell look back and see YOU as the prize... until then, let her do her thing... its not you. She OBVIOUSLY likes you a TON.... You're golden , homie... now just be the best man you can be for her and encourage her and lift her up. In the end , youre gonna be: A. Some dude she liked, had a nice fling with, and has good memories about B. Some dude she liked, then became problematic, and ruined her experience, or C... and I'm sure THIS is you... Some dude who she REALLY liked and REALLY liked her back, then had her back and encouraged her and SHOWED her that he's there for her... DONT get in your fucking head dawg. You're golden. IF your paranoia is correct, then so be it. Just take it at face value... you had a GREAT time, now ride that feeling with a smile on your face. Whatever may bewilder you... its still a DOPE experience.
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[–]Baked-As-A-Cake 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
you got this.
Edit: Also, i peeped your profile, and remembered a new ESTGee just came out, so i snatched it, and made some loot. (im slingin legz in the 313) So good lookin mane!
[–]LolaBijou -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
Only when she’s into you.
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[–]LolaBijou -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
She was into you. She changed her mind.
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[–]LolaBijou -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Don’t ask for answers if you’re not ready to hear them…guy. She could be into you, but has absolutely zero intention of ripping up her life and leaving everything she knows to move to a different country. Even you said you wouldn’t want to move to another country, but wanted her to move to the states.
[–]Baked-As-A-Cake 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
no joke, homie has bad delivery, but they kinda right.
What would you want for your sister/daughter/etc? Thats what your girl wants. Encourage her. If she's dope enough one of you WILL move, and neither would care where to, so long as you're with each other. UNTIL then, feel it out. see where it goes... worst case scenario, you had a HOT vacation with a (soon to be) model and she had a lovely weekend with a cool dude who supported her... anything after that is just a bonus, dude.
[–]LolaBijou -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
…and he’s DMing me now.
[–]Baked-As-A-Cake -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Because youre being an asshole. Str8 up. You think because you have a vagina you speak for all of them? I wouldnt give you the time of day over these detroit thots.
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[–]Baked-As-A-Cake 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dude, dont listen to this jelly ass thot. Girl cant realize that its not her looks, her likes, her overall stature... its the fact that she's just no fun and wants to bring other people down with her.
like i said, youre golden. Ignore the smoke.
[–]LolaBijou -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You’re asking people to speculate. And I’m speculating on my past experiences as a woman. When I cool off on talking to a guy, it’s because I’m not into him. If I know I’m going to have limited service, I’ll let him know in advance.
But hey, maybe she’s being held hostage, tied up in a chair with her phone just out of reach, dying to be able to text you. Anything is possible.
[–]Superb-End6273 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh gosh...
[–]SpinCity07 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m pretty sure she took the long distance thing as “I am not really into you”. I know you meant something else but, she probably doesn’t feel appreciated by you. Just another notch in your belt. By messaging her now, she probably thinks you’re looking for one thing hence the delayed texts.
You have to show her that’s she’s special and important to you and that without her, life seems dull and boring. You need to go on a date and not make it about sex but, about connection and how you two hanging out make both your lives better.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Theres the term “hit it & quit it” ..its nothing shes playing the “hit & quit” game. In other words some women are looking for “Mr. Right”’and others are looking for “Mr. RightAtTheMoment”
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Now you go look for another girl to sleep with.
[+][deleted] -7 points-6 points-5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you blew the best thing that ever happened to you.
[–]Dakessian 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As long as you enjoyed it it’s a huge win dude.
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