How to not fall into black pill thinking when...

Calamity__Bane · 2022-08-25T15:30:16+00:00

You avoid falling into it by not being a whinging moron.

a girl you like would rather date a bouncer than you

So? There are literally billions of women on the planet, some will obviously prefer some men over you. Whether you like them or not is irrelevant.

It’s not just about height, it is also about frame and size

Those two things are under your direct control, so instead of being a fucktard, you should go lift.

still find you can’t compete because of your size and shape

This is the most retarded thing I’ve heard all day. First of all, you don’t even know if that’s the reason she chose him, there could be any number of reasons she wanted him more than you. Second of all, how big you are is directly under your control, so if that really is your problem there’s an obvious solution waiting for you. Third, being lean and healthy is >>>>>>>> being gigantic when it comes to what women in general want. Brad Pitt in his prime would mog any juiced bodybuilder you can mention with 99% of women.

DickProgress · 2022-08-25T15:20:59+00:00

a girl you like dating a bouncer proves what? bouncers have higher status than regular people when it comes to the club scene. they'll get play even if they're ugly af. it doesn't prove blackpill at all

yes people are a lot more interested in your physical than before along with personality. doesn't mean you have to be chad. work out and focus on improving your appearance while also talking to women.

It matters very little how intelligent, talented or wealthy you are

that's true. the best strategy to date is to focus on sexual chemistry, instead of leading with the wallet. you could do it with your body or by knowing how to flirt effectively (which admittedly takes time to learn)

or how much you work on your personality, a proportion of within go for bigger bodies and build. There seems to be a trend in that direction.

yes a sizable proportion go for bigger bodies and builds, not all. All you can do is work on building muscle and talking to women at the same time.

I guess the thinking would, it's on her, not you. But when you work on yourself a lot and believe yourself to be of value, but still find you can't compete because of your size and shape, it does become disheartening.

it doesn't matter if you think you are of value or not. it's like women getting PHDs and wondering why men aren't flocking to them. you can think you have value but women aren't gonna flock to you if they don't think you have value. and in this day and age, where women have their own jobs and don't need your money, they can go for men who stimulate them sexually or emotionally.

most people aren't going to be able to be the hottest man ever, or the most seductive man ever. work on getting above average in both, learn how to approach women and you'll swim in pussy

runaround_fruitcop · 2022-08-25T15:02:08+00:00

Do you know the bouncer? If not you're straight up judging a man for a job with no prior knowledge about who he is.

Maybe he's a really nice and good guy and they have a lot in common.

Firstly you're assuming a lot about two people. You're assuming that the guy is a douche because of his job and 2nd you're judging the woman you like because she CHOSE to date a guy you THINK isn't a good person or whatever your grief with him is over you.

The bouncer isn't a bad guy just because the girl you like is dating him

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-08-25T15:36:05+00:00

most girls absolutely do not prefer muscular guys, otherwise they'd all be over me, i mean i get my fair share of looks but i see more women with out of shape or skinny dudes over guys like me

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-25T17:06:51+00:00

Them hit the gym every day and stop complaining

FabijanJohansson · 2022-08-25T12:57:41+00:00

A girl who dates bouncers is not a girl you want in your life anyway

atomant88 · 2022-08-25T13:00:00+00:00

fuck off with the incel bullshit man. go make some approaches. get laid. get out from behind your keyboard

grindforthegold · 2022-08-25T12:59:14+00:00

i mean i’m short i’m just good looking. i can get girls around my height and looks level. maybe you’re aiming too high?

i’ve still been on like 7 dates and every girl either flaked or we went too far hooking up during the date or i wasn’t into them. i’m exhausted and i need like a month break before trying again… just to show you ever when you are doing good you can still fail cuz girls are just by their nature high value and have lots of options it is what it is

CometAzur42069 · 2022-08-25T16:18:36+00:00

Lol why are you judging a bouncer again

Competitive-Link-912 · 2022-08-25T17:26:56+00:00

Yes silly thinking. No legit exp. Height matters, otherwise don’t be fat and your fine.

zapadz · 2022-08-25T20:22:24+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5Ls2TJKvLc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLsUnv50Hq4

Title	How to not fall into black pill thinking when...
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Date	August 25, 2022 12:40 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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