If people really don't have incredibly high standards regarding whom they view as "attractive", how come it's still quite difficult to find a match?

Puzzled_Nail_1962 · 2022-08-24T10:41:00+00:00

It's absolutely a myth you have to be a 10% man to get anything. Just logically, that doesn't make sense. It's true for some parts, if you're looking to sleep with 100s of women through tinder, you won't get around being extremely attractive. That's just how life works.

But finding anyone to date isn't that hard or how else does the fat dude from accounting do it? You get the point. The thing is, most people online fail at really the most important point: Interacting with women all the time. You can improve all you want, be super fit, rich and succeful and still get nothing. But you can also not have all that and still be successful with women.

The vast majority of women are very normal people, they don't have 50k followers on instagram, they don't sleep with a different guy from tinder every day, they just live a normal live and are looking for a normal partner.

I can guarantee you, the Kindergartner has 0 problems finding someone, if he has at least some basic social skills. Why? Because there's a ton of women he works with every day. Same for the bartender, waiter, whatever.

The IT guy (and I'm stereotyping here) on the other hand, trys to play a completely different game he can never win. Sit at home or the office with 95% guys trying his luck on tinder. And those are the people that naturally post the most on the internet too.

n0wmhat · 2022-08-24T11:57:24+00:00

Women are liars. They say nice things like this to make themselves seem virtuous and kind and feel better about themselves, but at the end of the day, they will go for the hot dude.

IceBerg3000 · 2022-08-24T13:17:17+00:00

Humans talk a better game than their actions do.

Just make sure you working on YOU at all times. Health & wealth shit. The matches are everywhere but if your not on your shit the matches won’t appear.

sidbunch6 · 2022-08-24T10:53:21+00:00

it's still difficult to find a match - be that on dating apps or even when asking people out in real life.

cold approach is simply tinder, but in person, tbh

domdomdom333 · 2022-08-24T10:29:19+00:00

Because still so many people are below the already low standard.

For example, all I'm asking for a girl is to: Not smoke, No tattoos, Max weight 70kg~.

But even with these 3 things it's too much. Haven't matched with anyone in the last few years.

atomant88 · 2022-08-24T10:22:16+00:00

Its not my dude

MavenMermaid · 2022-08-24T10:27:59+00:00

Dating apps are superficial regardless of what others say. You’re judging people based on pictures. There are subs for each app that encourage users to post and get feedback on their profiles - I’d try it out. You can create a fake Reddit profile for that post if you don’t want it linked back to you too.

Best of luck.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-08-24T14:33:04+00:00

Because people lie

Title	If people really don't have incredibly high standards regarding whom they view as "attractive", how come it's still quite difficult to find a match?
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Date	August 24, 2022 10:20 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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