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UnderstandingEvery44 · 2022-08-14T14:48:47+00:00

“Good day today, better day tomorrow” - coach Williams (my lax coach from 2008-2012)

Learn from this and move on to the next opportunity

Nerdlinger42 · 2022-08-14T16:24:29+00:00

Here's a piece of advice that paints the whole picture, man:

Ain't nobody getting out of this bitch alive. You might as well send it.

Hope that helps!

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-14T15:17:38+00:00

It's not your fault. Society has brainwashed you to constantly sabotage yourself with excuses.

iMagZz · 2022-08-14T15:39:30+00:00

This was literally one of my friends yesterday. I mean, one girl was all over him, but he just didn't do anything. I'll tell you the same thing I told him....

It's fine. Sure, you could've done something, maybe you should have, but now instead just learn from it. Remember how you feel now, because you don't want to make the same mistake(s) again next time, and there will be another time. Just throw yourself into it and see what happens. If nothing happens it's fine, no big deal, and if something happens, well, that's great. You've got nothing to lose. Also remember that you don't need to go balls to the wall and expect that she wants to go all the way (who knows, maybe she does though) - some kissing is fine too and it doesn't need to go beyond that if you aren't comfortable doing so. Take the chance and just have fun.

2022-08-14T19:58:53+00:00

You can't really make something out of nothing. If you didn't hit with yourselves naturally, there is low chance that she will respond positively to asking for contact number out of the blue. Next time instead of focusing on forcing final outcome, just enjoy your natural interaction with women.

blebster92 · 2022-08-14T20:43:28+00:00

I feel you, we've all been there bro. One technique you could try that has worked for me is the "gun to head" technique: just imagine someone has a gun to your head and is MAKING you do whatever it is you want (approach a girl, ask for a number, etc.).

Dakidmen · 2022-08-14T15:20:38+00:00

I sabotaged myself last friday. I feel so bad with myself

focus_flow69 · 2022-08-14T16:23:10+00:00

Just don't forget this time you fumbled the bag.

Use it as your lesson and set a rule to never do it again.

Sloth-papi · 2022-08-15T00:39:33+00:00

Don’t worry about it bro - after all, there are many fish in the ocean :)

Novke1337 · 2022-08-15T01:34:22+00:00

they were literally with us for literally the whole time

burncushlikewood · 2022-08-15T02:25:58+00:00

You gotta be more confident man, if you ask for the number after that long of hanging out you're getting the wrong signals, you should be trying to escalate at the event and bringing her back straight to your place. It only takes 3-8 hours before you have sex with a woman, and it takes 3 seconds for her to be attracted to you

Calamity__Bane · 2022-08-15T03:42:41+00:00

All good bro, we’ve all fucked up in dumb ways. Only thing to do is learn the lesson and keep moving.

debu206 · 2022-08-15T08:30:42+00:00

Ive made it easy. Here is what works for me. If a girl shows interest, just say lets get drinks in the week. She says yes, exchange numbers and done.

Easy as pie ;)

help-im-alive451 · 2022-08-15T09:07:13+00:00

We've all been there bro regret feels bad but it won't in time you literally live and learn. If it wasn't the number it would be something else down the line. There will be many more where it simply clicks without thought because of this.

MrColfax · 2022-08-15T10:25:28+00:00

It's only a mistake if you do it twice

Learn from this!

rjones416 · 2022-08-15T11:09:51+00:00

no one is on their game 100% of the time. you're human. just get back to it and keep shooting like you're kobe.

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