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[–][deleted] 37 points38 points39 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude just audit a class so you have a reason to be there
[–]kanyesbathroommirror 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That part. Just hanging around campus without actually attending classes gives off creepy loser vibes, but taking some silly class just for fun like art or a foreign language would make you a more interesting person anyway.
[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
bars around college towns
[–]literallyou 42 points43 points44 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take a course
[–]infinite_tbr 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Weird. Be prepared for questions like “when’s your next class” & “ what are you studying here?” Followed by “well what do you do for work?” & “what are your goals?”.
The conversations you do have can snowball very fast for you if you don’t have the charm, the prep, or the looks (not saying that any of these are missing by the way).
Also, if you go, go with purpose and have a few conversations with people. Don’t be seen in the quad “scouting” for the ideal woman and not have one conversation, people will take note.
[–]Contango6969 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No but let me say it’s pretty hard lol everyone is trying to get to class or whatever. And something about a college campus gives me the “spotlight effect” like no other place. You’ll have a lot more luck hanging out at whatever “college bar” is close to campus in my opinion.
[–]Powerful_Librarian_2 20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yes, that is weird. Lmaooo
[–]Iniesta_May6-2009 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you go out there and be friendly to people, pick up girls through cold approach (something 99% of men can’t do). Why do you care about what other people think about it? Plus youre 23. Youre within the demographic. If youre in your later 30s or 40s, then yeah. That’s creepy
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is not. He fits in age wise and most college campuses have public facilities like libraries and gyms.
[–]greenlight144000 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Okay I don’t know where else to go
[–]ZachMoore88 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do it anyway. Some of the girls will like you and some won't.....but that's the case wherever you go.
[–]Severe-Ad9174 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Going to meet young women as a young man is wierd now lmao you guys are 🏳️🌈
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At 23 I never really had a problem approaching on a campus. At 25, I’m starting too
Yes its weird. Not super weird but weird.
[–]Therocksays2020 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How old are you?
[–]greenlight144000 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I’m 23
[–]Therocksays2020 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Easy work around. Do they have a public library? You can say you’re waiting on a friend as well.
If you were in your mid 30s I would shit on it but you’re probably fine
[–]greenlight144000 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don’t know I haven’t gone to a campus yet
[–]Therocksays2020 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do your research on the library and shot so it’s easy to come up with an alibi for being there. I wouldn’t lie about being a student when you’re not.
[–]greenlight144000 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay I’ll look into it
[–]MrBlack__ 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Alone, yes. With friends… not so weird
[–]greenlight144000 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Great….. I don’t know where else to approach
[–]surfershane25 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do they not have bars in your country?
[–]greenlight144000 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There are bars yes
[–]surfershane25 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go to the bars around the college…
[–]Jasonhardon -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just don’t get kicked out by security
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yes
[–]greenlight144000 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So what should I do?
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not go to the college campus?
I just graduated. I’d feel weird going to another college just to talk to girls when I don’t go there.
The biggest common factor you have with girls at college is gone if you don’t go there. Can’t relate to them at all.
[–]greenlight144000 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t know where else to approach though
[–]cantgetschwifty 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Subway is a nice place
[–]cantgetschwifty 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The subway
[–]abrahamlincorn 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As a college aged woman, yes this is creepy & you will get spoken to by campus police lol
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. 😂
[–]HomeschoolProm 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Should I get my masters lol I’m 24 and I just turned it and graduated in the spring and feel lost as all heck :/
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