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shipsAreWeird123 · 2022-08-02T01:06:19+00:00

Honestly, meet women off the clock.

Use this time as an opportunity to learn to talk to women without being a creep and then go out and meet them other places.

I do NOT want to be hit on by my Uber driver.. and it happens on 1/5 of my Uber trips.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-08-02T01:16:30+00:00

You want to hit on women who are alone and captive in a stranger's car?

Can't you see how that will very understandably freak some of them out? I'm assuming that you're well-meaning and not actually going to rape anybody, but that's much easier for me to say from a thousand miles away. The women in your car, on the other hand, are in a much more precarious position.

They're hiring you to do a job. Do the job and let them go on with their day. Use your social skills to approach women who aren't in such a vulnerable position.

2022-08-02T01:49:59+00:00

Lol you trying to get banned from Uber?

redditman7777 · 2022-08-02T01:26:39+00:00

Creepy post mate

libert-y · 2022-08-02T02:02:15+00:00

Bruh. Do your job and get paid. Hit on girls outside of working hours

ScroatyGroats · 2022-08-02T02:35:18+00:00

Fellow Uber driver here in New York - Just keep doing what you're doing, being polite, funny and professional and eventually one will offer her number/Snapchat/insta without you asking for it

Happened to me maybe 3-4 times in 2 years of driving

Otherwise probably best to meet women other ways.

WillfulMurder · 2022-08-02T04:26:01+00:00

This is like hitting on your waitress. Your passenger is forced to entertain you to a degree while they're stuck in the car with you, so conventional signs don't mean they actually are interested in you.

cepi300 · 2022-08-02T03:07:43+00:00

Former Uber driver here. I did go on a few dates with women I drove but I was super hands off about flirting and basically waited till they showed romantic interest. Don’t do it first, it’s creepy and unprofessional.

madcuzbad · 2022-08-02T04:12:16+00:00

Are you only hitting on women while you are driving them?

Mc_Dickles · 2022-08-02T04:34:28+00:00

Damn I’m a dude and I hate when my Uber drivers talk to me lol

I don’t think anyone really likes chatting with their Uber drives tbh

Lotus_82 · 2022-08-02T01:05:41+00:00

In dating “standing out” means being high value as opposed to just average / forgettable.

The total package is: looks (face + body), social / communication skills and personality / charisma (sense of humor, ambition, etc..).

For the most part there’s no getting around physical attraction no matter how funny and charming a guy is.

Also keep in mind that most women can’t handle confrontation of any kind and would rather laugh than have an awkward conversation to tell you they just had a really long day and have a lot on their mind and would rather enjoy their cab ride in silence. Not saying that’s the case for the majority of women but any means, but I’m sure it happens sometimes.

nikovagu · 2022-08-02T02:47:04+00:00

The sociology of it simply won't work from an evolutionary standpoint. You are providing a service and that puts you in a power disadvantage.

Women date upwards and when you are driving for her, you are downwards. Not saying driving Uber makes you in any way inferior as a person, but during the particular interaction, you are.

The stories of ladies being seduced by the gardener/mailman/Uber only exist in pornos, particularly because of that power imbalance taboo. Use the experience to build confidence and go hit on girls outside work! :)

plugdoc · 2022-08-02T04:09:58+00:00

im in the samw boat. its tough bro

SociallyCluelessHELP · 2022-08-02T04:08:54+00:00

This is exactly what I go through as an Uber Driver, especially since I drive a Tesla for Uber.

Bro idk, as soon as I try to hit on them they cringe and get uncomfortable.

I think it has more to do with looks and status than anything bro.

Girls give me up to $30 tips and even ask for my number but I never hear from them ever again.

But I did have 3 occasions where I made out with 3 girls Ubering and brought 1 home. They were all sober btw

searchfgold6789 · 2022-08-02T01:07:28+00:00

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MayhemReignsTV · 2022-08-02T04:44:09+00:00

I do pretty good in the course of food delivery without even really hitting on anybody. I am a little outgoing and flirtatious by nature. And no, it’s not the customers. So stop thinking of the old image of pizza delivery guy getting invited inside. That only happened to me once when I was a pizza delivery driver years back. But if you are confident, speak to them softly and slowly, and look them in the eye when you are talking to them, you can get quite a bit of attention from waitresses and even some managers lol. Not to mention the customers in the restaurant that you get the attention of while you’re chatting with them or even just doing a professional verbal exchange. I actually don’t take any of them home because having a flirty rapport with them often gets me the service that I need in some of these bigger places and makes mine and their jobs a little more fun. I get plenty of attention outside of my hours, those rare blessed moments at the current time 😂

IamProfessorO · 2022-08-02T04:52:31+00:00

Creepy Lowkey. You’ll be able to tell if they’re feeling you and just go from there

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