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MK2718 · 2022-06-22T10:39:48+00:00

Step 1: Ask him to help you solve a problem (even if you can do it yourself).

Step 2: Show him a large amount of appreciation for solving the problem for you. Bonus points if the thank you involves a tasty edible component such as cookies.

LucyLaceATX · 2022-06-22T23:50:58+00:00

Don’t be available any time he wants Don’t ‘play hard to get’; actually be hard to get by focusing on yourself and your goals As much as I hate saying this one, I’ve learned that it’s necessary: don’t sleep with a dude on the first date (unless you’re just looking to hook up and don’t care for them to call you back, in which case, go for it). I have found that about a month is long enough to weed out the ones who just want to sleep with you. Even the most physically driven men will wait for you if they want more than a fuck buddy. BE PICKY. BE PICKY. BE PICKY. Don’t be afraid to date multiple people at once, specially if you’re not sleeping with anyone. Give yourself the freedom to truly find someone that sticks out over the rest for god reasons.

Aaaaand if you really want to keep his attention while he gets emotionally invested, look a little slutty every time you see him, sound a little dirty , even get a little touchy-feely when flirting, but DO NOT ENGAGE IN ANYTHING FURTHER THAN KISSING until you are sure he doesn’t just want to sleep with you.

Any guy that can easily make it through a month as you get to know them within these parameters is actually relationship material.

It took me the better part of two decades to figure it out, and both my ex and my current partner were/are 100% awesome. Here’s my Insta if you want to ogle :P @thegemmaisabell

ShiningDraken · 2022-06-22T09:39:54+00:00

Depends on the man. I, for example, like thinking about stuff, so naturally I would be inclined towards philosophy and science. But someone may be good at sports or singing, so that could be used as a tool for attraction.

divoyal · 2022-06-22T10:16:20+00:00

You can show that you want to talk by texting more. In person you can do things like curling your hair, smiling, eye contact.. At one point if you start to like the other person and they are that bad at reading your cues (most men are), you can just walk up to them and be like "so, when are you finally gonna ask me on a date?"

Creepy-Storage-1786 · 2022-06-22T11:32:12+00:00

You are hot and you are cold. You are yes and you are no. You are in and you are out.

best-wang-ever · 2022-06-23T05:52:19+00:00

LOL, take everything here with a grain of salt. Most of us are not experts are seducing dudes...

Besides having a big booty, I personally like someone who is confident and has enthusiasm.

Like, if I say "Lets go to the zoo!" Something like "Fuck yea, I love otters!" is good.

I guess the old "agree and amplify" works on most people.

tristian_lay · 2022-06-22T16:16:58+00:00

Go up and joke around with him

Freakygast · 2022-06-22T17:07:18+00:00

Go cook for him.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-23T06:07:04+00:00

First you stroke his ego, then you stroke his cock.

Log701 · 2022-06-22T07:47:07+00:00

Do have guy in mind who you want to seduce?

ksmith11011 · 2022-06-22T22:26:00+00:00

A man who wants to commit for good as you say is going to have a certain level of emotional dependency on you and he’ll seem very attracted but nervous early on especially at your age. Is that something you want and are attracted to? Or do early signs of that set off red flags?

If you’re trying to convert one of the guys who only want to sleep with you into a long term boyfriend, there are some tricks you can use but it’s going to be uphill battle the whole way.

The stuff you mentioned can definitely get conversations going and may even get a guy to start thinking “dream girl” if he also likes those things. But again, that’s usually more best friend stuff and less romantic relationship stuff. If you’ve ever spent all day every day texting with a guy you weren’t romantically involved with you’ll know the feeling.

letmereaddamnit · 2022-06-23T10:30:00+00:00

I don't know, most men are into most women initially until something comes up to put them off

National_Salt_645 · 2022-07-08T13:13:45+00:00

You arent supposed to seduce a man if you are a good looking female, you wanna lead someone on into making the hardest effort to connect with you mentally before getting to you, at the same time building up the passion while keeping things exciting, you have to hold back and let go just the right amount so he knows there could be something but not too sure to take you granted, and in the end when it happens it would be rewarding to both of you!,

theres more details to that, you could ofcourse dm

HappyGreenPanda · 2022-06-22T15:31:11+00:00

If you were attractive he would be talking to you. You’re not on his radar.

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