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HowToStud · 2022-06-12T05:27:05+00:00

Free attention and validation. You make them feel good by being there at there every need or beckon. It’s that simple

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-06-12T04:57:17+00:00

1) Liberal men are weaklings, and they come off as unattractive. Stop that immediately. A literal neo-nazi will sooner bang a feminist chick than a leftist 'ally' will bang a conservative woman.

2) Women must always see themselves as the good guy. Telling you they still want to be friends makes them feel better about themselves

3) In some cases, they don't even want to 'be friends' in the traditional sense of the word. Rather, they want to continue receiving free attention from you in exchange for nothing, usually in moments when they are bored.

Have some self respect. It sounds like you have made a habit around pussyfooting around, being as non threatening and 'nice' as possible, and then your 'move' is to confess your feelings (gross and effeminate). Stop doing all of the above.

bibidibabidibooyah · 2022-06-12T06:10:53+00:00

I think she has a point, pal. She liked you and you had no clue and when you made a move it was too late.

Also the fact that she wants a formal relationship and you just want it to be casual is a big difference in goals. If you don't want her for anything serious then keep it that way: as friends. Don't be an a*hole (no offense).

Given your differences and what she already exposed to you, I think that having her as a friend is still a win.

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2022-06-12T05:41:11+00:00

Women like attention from men and they don’t like being the bad guy. So they offer you friendship instead.

determinator94 · 2022-06-12T06:36:03+00:00

Here’s a new flash - a girl who says she wants to be friends after rejecting you isn’t really your friend. Lemme ask you - has any girl that said she wanted to be friends actually hung out with you? If the answer is no, there’s your answer. It’s just for free validation and attention. That means you gotta cut ties with her or just distance yourself from her at the very least.

Beccaaaaaalolz · 2022-06-12T04:21:33+00:00

She likes you as a friend, that’s why she wants to be friends. If that’s not good enough for you, then don’t be friends with her.

GlitteringPause8 · 2022-06-12T04:44:05+00:00

idk why you're confused. She likes you as a friend so she wants to be friends. Like...what's the confusion

BulletReaper · 2022-06-12T05:17:50+00:00

I have become good friends with several women who I dated and rejected me. And in turn they introduce me to their single friends and tell them how great I am. Not everyone is going to like you and attraction may come and go. Just live in the moment and enjoy whatever relationship you form with people, wether it’s platonic or not. If you don’t want to be friends with her then don’t, no one is forcing you. I thought I could remain friends with my ex but ended up not working out so I let her go.

bibidibabidibooyah · 2022-06-12T06:09:15+00:00

I think she has a point, pal. She liked you and you had no clue and when you made a move it was too late. Also the fact that she wants a formal relationship and you just want it to be casual is a big difference in goals. If you don't want her for anything serious then keep it that way: as friends. Don't be an a*hole (no offense).

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