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[–]Pheasantluvr69 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Don't be nervous yourself, and make your approaches natural.
[–]Moist_Meaning_597 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Yesterday I saw this girl sitting alone outside her business (store). I went ahead to 'buy something' from the store.
We had a lil talk, as it is all I wanted, just to approach and talk. So yea, it was pretty natural.
She was highly nervous tho.
[–]Pheasantluvr69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe she was gonna be nervous no matter who was gonna approach her. It could have nothing to do with you and you don’t have anything to worry about
[–]Invest2prosper 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Smile at her
[–]alikebabay 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read Joe Navarro What every body is saying. It has all the answers.
Also pro tip: girls spot and assess guys from a very very far distance. So even before you approach they make their judgement about your looks and body language.
[–]ParticularAmazing112 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They way I explain it is you should always approach women like you’ll approach a friend you see from across the street. When you see a friend you know, you don’t wait till you’re right in their face before you start speaking. From across the street, you already smile at them, seek friendly and while in a walking distance, say hi or something.
You should approach women the same way. They’ll feel much safer.
[–]Moist_Meaning_597 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I shared up in a comment the approach from yesterday. It went smooth, and natural. Of course with smiles and shit, non-creepy at all.
Is just this girl was nervous AF.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If you’re cold approaching a woman.
Rule #1: Don’t be creepy.
Rule #2: See rule 1
[–]Moist_Meaning_597 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Wasn't being creepy at all. Read upper comments where I explained the approach.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m reading this comment that you posted. You say that they feel nervous around you. There must be a reason related to how you’re approaching them.
[–]Archyblackcat 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not just that... it’s simple, social anxiety is not only for guys.. I would say girls are more socially anxious .. I’ve heard a ton of times that a girl feels nervous around you if they are attracted to you .. or they are just socially anxious that’s it.. (lacking social skills)
[–]peduxe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
either jokingly or seriously ask them why they are nervous?
if you're not able to find it yourself you ask them, that's how you find out.
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