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[–]CoffinEluder 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Definitely a bad move. However, the higher her interest, the more mistakes you can make. Keep things light & playful - always. Good luck
[–]StrivingBetterMe 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
I still think she’s really interested. She told me that within two weeks of knowing me she deleted all her dating app accounts, because she just felt like “there was something different about me.” How bad of a move was it?
[–]Everlast23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Have you guys had sex yet?
[–]StrivingBetterMe 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, many times actually. Couldn’t even count how many but I’d say at least 20
[–]Everlast23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't see what the big deal is about telling her what you're going through.
I feel like that's the point of relationships is to help each other.
[–]PM_ME_FEMALE_ASS 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Dude, fuck all that. Really. From what you've typed out it seems like you may want to pursue something more serious/long term with this chick. In the wider scope of things, it's better that you explain it to her and she understands than you bottling it up inside and exploding on her(not in the way we would prefer...) Furthermore, she seems pretty understanding and nice about it. You could maybe have told her a bit later, but that's it. Don't kick yourself over this shit. Besides, if she uses that against you in anyway or leaves you cos of it then she clearly isn't someone you want anyway. As of what you've told us, things still seem good so just enjoy it and take whatever may come. All the best mate
[–]StrivingBetterMe 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Thank you bro. Yeah I really like her a lot. I would like a relationship. I’m not much into hookups, I catch feelings way to easy.
[–]PM_ME_FEMALE_ASS 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah. Fuck all that game bs. A real relationship should be genuine, not calculated and manipulated at every step. At the same time, don't lose your identity as a man. And in your case specifically, a man is someone comfortable with being vulnerable. However, you have to keep in mind you're only one month in. Regardless, Loosen up and enjoy the ride buddy.
[–]StrivingBetterMe1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
True, I go back and forth due to my depression. Majority of the days I feel great about where we are at, and I’m just enjoying spending time with her. There is always those days for me that I get super down and feel bad about myself
[–]daring_innovator 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Never share your issues with women, it may feel good but your attraction will fall drastically. Never show vulnerability, humbleness yes, vulnerability never. Respect will be lost & she will begin to resent you. She will secretly be turned off & if you do it long enough she will pity you then replace you within a week.
Never share your true intentions with women, ever! Never say it. Keep girls guessing as they try to figure you out & drive her imagination wild, as you are enigmatic to her. Do not share much information about yourself. Do make yourself a puzzle for her to try to solve. She will chase you down but she can’t catch up to you.
Don’t give straight answers, give her open ended answers as you drive her crazy by never revealing yourself. She will be intrigued because she thinks she’s one step closer to you but you’re always 8 ft away from her, elusive to her. You just always one-up her game and then she will crave you more than anything in the universe.
And when she finally gets too close, seduce her, love her, fuck her HARD- penetrate her all the way till she just can’t and she explodes into love & ecstasy, release yourself through her, dissolve yourself through her, let yourself go using her like a fuckdoll & feel her hips moving on you, smell her perfume, feel her radiant energy, feel her emotions, her femininity, listen to her moans echo off the walls, feel her soft skin, receive her love, become her, merge into the woman in front of you, let yourself go until you become nothing. Penetrate through her wet pussy slide through her and go as deep as anything can go, liberate her spirit, break her frustration relentlessly through perfectly chiseled strokes, release her repressed sexual feelings, transcend her into love until there’s nothing left of the two of you but the universe in her eyes & pure ecstasy.
A good poker player never reveals his hand. A good magician never explains his tricks. An irresistible man never reveals his intentions.
[–]StrivingBetterMe3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I mean, as far as sex goes. We’ve fucked a lot actually. I think the sex is pretty nice. She was a little worried actually that I was using her only for sex. I told her that wasn’t the case, but I guess according to you I shouldn’t have told her that lmao
[–]Nishero 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn bruh, that fourth paragraph got me going
[–]jackzander 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Several-Albatross741 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
From her asking about other women, it seems like both of you have your own issues to deal with. Opening up like that gives her an upper hand - depending on what type of person she is it can be for better or worse.
Yeah, tbh I think we both are fucked up a little bit mentally lmao. She’s opened up and told me some shit though to.
[–]AgileDoughnut555 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I think it’s best to trickle these vulnerabilities in over time rather than all at once. Even then, I would try to spin any vulnerability into a positive- i.e. you went through something and overcame it, and now it is a strength.
True, yeah I feel like I vented a little to much to her. It’s always when she sleeps over. Usually the night before I’m super chill, but when I wake up in the mornings, I’m always in a depressed mood and I spill all my feelings
[–]AgileDoughnut555 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I used to do this stuff too. It’s a form of self sabotage. The girl is not your therapist or your mom.
Yeah, I even actually mentioned that to her. I told her that I tend to self sabotage relationships and situations. I agree, I need to be much better at not doing it.
[–]AgileDoughnut555 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t beat yourself up over it. You can still be the dominant guy she is looking for.
[–]Dodechaedron 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Always reciprocate. Open up a bit and let her match. If she doesn't open up in return, bad sign. The same with sexual innuendo, kino, etc. You have to push a little bit in the inter, in order to keep interest but without being unpleasant (or boring) ...
[–]No-Historian-6391 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes
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