Tried to get girl's number on dating app, she said she wanted to get to know me more first. How to proceed?

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-04-25T23:20:05+00:00

Just push a coffee date don't waste your energy

jackzander · 2022-04-25T23:59:04+00:00

offered to add me on Telegram(?)

Red flag tbh

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-04-25T23:10:16+00:00

You may wanna forget about the number and just connect.

Like you are so outcome dependant that you don’t allow for things to progress naturally and connect genuinely.

Focus on connecting and having fun talking,…

Stop thinking you have to get something from her.

She isn’t thinking about when you can exchange numbers she is thinking on whether you connect and so should you.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-04-26T00:03:08+00:00

Play along for awhile. At some point ask for her number again and if she’s still refusing to give it, give up on her.

determinator94 · 2022-04-26T00:24:08+00:00

She rejected you bruh move on

Vysnir · 2022-04-25T23:13:02+00:00

Could be a catfish unless you both have a way to prove you are both who you say you are online.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-25T23:34:55+00:00

Telegram is the Russian app, so probably a Russian ho looking to fleece you.

Financial-Review-470 · 2022-04-26T00:39:40+00:00

I wouldn't give anyone my real number that quickly either. Just keep chatting on the app or use an alt app. I would not feel comfortable giving my main number to a stranger.

fnamazin · 2022-04-26T00:55:01+00:00

Screw the number for now - push for a date. Something light, low cost, low committment. Snacks, tea, walk in a park, depending on the weather and your location. If she flakes on that, move along.

saryiahan · 2022-04-26T00:58:09+00:00

Schedule a tea date or going to a park for a walking date. If she’s interested she will agree cause it’s a public place. If she backs off or gives you the run around then don’t waste your time and move on

PatientAssociation62 · 2022-04-26T01:19:28+00:00

anything having to do with online I would always ask for a video chat. That way you can see if her pix match, do some initial screening, and decide if she is legit or not and go from there.

Title	Tried to get girl's number on dating app, she said she wanted to get to know me more first. How to proceed?
Author	1_1111111
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	April 25, 2022 11:05 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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