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[–]CompetitionFair7686 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agree, but asking questions also takes value from girls, so better to say statements, or questions that sound and feel like statements.
You should establish why you are there to get to know each other and as soon as she agrees to meet you then make statements, rather than questions.
So rather than asking “how are you?/whats up?”
It’s better to say for examples: “You look like someone just stole and ate your sandwich when you weren’t looking” or “Looks like you just won’t the lottery ticket because girl you are radiant”
Or rather than asking “what are you up to today?” it’s better to say: “Let me guess, you are buying shoes today”
Doesn’t matter if you are right in your assumption or not because it’s irrelevant.
In other words, assume things about her, make statements, accuse her playfully of absurd things,… Don’t seek a reply (value seeking), just make statements (giving value).
[–]CocoBabeNYC 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I have never heard anyone give that advice.
[–]5_7pickup 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
For reals, no guy whos actually good at game would ever advise a hit and run phone number technique.
[–]selfjan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can you elaborate on this hit and run phone number technique plz?
[–]atomant88 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i dont think anyone ever said you should not try to build intimacy before asking for her number.
it is all sales. whats wrong with sales? fuck your fear. go find a connection. sales are made when you find someone who has been looking for what you're selling. if you're not confident someone is buying; what are you doing? improve your product
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[–]_526 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think we have the same idea, different approach. The point that I am trying to make is don't approach thinking about how your gonna get her number (value seeking). When you approach you should just be trying to have a little conversation, make her laugh a bit, see if she likes you (giving value).
[–]ImaginaryList174 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hmmm sorry dude but if you said any of those things to me I would be like… wtf. No I’m not buying fancy shoes to break anyones neck, and no it’s not your business if I’m up to naughty things etc. And I am a really friendly person.. those are just really odd bold statements to say to a stranger in my opinion. I would be thinking in my head like who are you and why are you making these weird assumptions about me? I would much MUCH rather being casually introduced to someone by them saying “how are you today?” Like OP originally said.
[–]Sandvicheater 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Pursuing a girl is identical to pursing that sale from a customer. You know those guys who could sell ice to Eskimos? Well they're the averaging looking dudes who seem to be landing 9/10s by some miracle.
[+]atomant88 -13 points-12 points-11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
the E-word is a racial slur my man, they're Inuit
[–]Stujitsu2 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I think there is a difference between ideal and the situation. Ideally you may chat and flirt for 30 minutes but not all situations are conducive to this. Taking action is always better than not.
[–]_526 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Why would you ideally chat for 30 minutes? Just have a small chat and get her number if she likes you and go about your life.
[–]Stujitsu2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Its all relative. If you meet her on the street I agree. If you met in a bar its situational
[–]_526 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're right.
[–]Stujitsu2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A mix of patience and directness is good. Tonight I number closed a fucking gorgeous brunette but I didn't like open with can I have your number. I flirt with her from the jump. I asked her out she said I am dating someone. I said if you are happy I am happy for you but every woman is dating someone. She said well...I am not married...I said great I'll take your number then.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah at the end of the day you want to see if theyre someone you even want to fuck around with too. Its a two way thing and you'll get a better feel if you have a conversation with them first
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