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[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas[M] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is more in the wheelhouse of/r/sex
You might repost it there
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[–]missterrcammeraa 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂😂😂 riiiight!! Niggas act like there’s no such thing as google sometimes 😂😂
[–]aStonedPanda94 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Focus on pleasuring her more than yourself is the way. Be dominant and smooth
[–]StaticNocturne -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes being dominant can be a bit at odds with focusing on her pleasure though?
[–][deleted] 94 points95 points96 points 4 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, there’s lot of good articles online. It definitely takes practice. However, the first advice I could give is to take your time. Unlike guys, women take time to warm up. Neck kisses, moving your hand on her body, and depending on the girl, gentle choking. Grab her tits, suck on her bottom lip when making out, things like that.
When you get real hot and heavy, start to move your hand down towards the outside of her pants where her pussy is. Start to rub in circular motions while making out. Test the waters, and then move your hand back up to her pants entry and start to rub in circular motions as you enter her underwear layer. She should be soaking by this point. Then move your hand to the last layer which is her actual pussy and begin to finger her. Do that for a few moments before sliding her pants off.
Now that her pants are off, just play with her pussy for a moment. If you don’t know what you’re doing, just suck on the clit while you start fingering her. Once you do that for a bit, try the two finger hook method. Once you figure out how to do that, you could get a girl to squirt. This foreplay and fingering exercise is crucial in my honest opinion.
Disclaimer: Make sure this is all consensual fellas. It doesn’t hurt to whisper “are you okay” as you go down on her. Girls will appreciate this.
[–]Venom_ViperX89 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s so descriptive, thnx 4 the tips
[–]MontyArmadillo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What is meant by two finger hook method? Couldn’t find anything about it on the interwebs
[–]pratyush_69 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Spider man (Tobey Maguire version) when he shoots webs
[–]Bobd_n_Weaved_it 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The "come hither"
[–]thrxwxwxyxbvxxslx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
U know the thing u do with your hands when you say come here? Do that with two fingers.
[–]YetzirahToAhssiah 60 points61 points62 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't act like a pornstar and jackhammer the shit out of her. Focus way more on foreplay... 20-30 minutes of foreplay, kissing and touching her everywhere.
Less is more with the clit.
5-15 minutes of penetration.
Cuddling and postplay after.
[–]StaticNocturne 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]OtherwiseCode8134 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Omg all you have to do is find her clit! We ask for so little!
Not being able to find it = bad sex. It’s as simple as that. I really don’t care how long a guy can last, I care if he can get me off.
[–]StaticNocturne 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
can you orgasm from oral? my approach has been to finger the g spot + oral at the same time, but the results have been a bit mixed haha
Also do you prefer a guy to reach down and finger you whilst kissing or to move down and focus on giving you an orgasm?
[–]OtherwiseCode8134 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can orgasm from just oral but it takes longer than oral and fingering. And yes, having a guy reach down to finger me while we’re making out it great!
Give a woman more than one orgasm and she’ll never forget you! My advice is to finger before, during and after sex. Finger her clit while you’re inside her and then go down on her shortly after.
[–]YetzirahToAhssiah 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Spend way more time on r/sex
[–]DemonSteven420 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When you bust a nut don't skip a beat and never lose focus. Be selfless and considerate. Learn what you partner wants n likes .
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[–]YetzirahToAhssiah 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's definitely related, and we should be more informative than a google search... although r/sex is better.
It's related because keeping her coming back is the most important step of seduction.
[–]nocapjack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
this sub has always been cringey. it is not hard to find women.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is hard to know how to talk to them so that they want to sleep with you or date you though
[–]burncushlikewood 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Practice that shit! Someone on Reddit said there's a stigma to men who buy flesh lights/sex dolls but that isn't a bad thing at all. Buy a fleshlight and practice, use the mount and go over your technique. Read books, communicate, watch videos and do whatever you can to improve your sexual skill.
[–]BuffedLars 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago* (21 children) | Copy Link
For starters you should suck on her clit and make out with her pussy until she fills your mouth full of capri sun.
Also ask what she likes too.
[–]Psychological_Hunt24 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is it seriously just that easy to eat a girl out and be good at it? Don’t have much experience in that field.
[–]BuffedLars 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well try it out and ask how they like it. If you can both communicate amd take instruction then it shouldn't be hard to please them.
[–]PM_M3_PUPPIES -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Do not suck on her clit! Wtf lol
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
You definitely can it will feel good with light sucking.
[–]PM_M3_PUPPIES -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
I’m a woman & I’d advise not to do that. In my experience with being intimate with other women, that was not something that was enjoyable. I’ve also had it done on me before and it was a weird feeling.
Oh fair I guess the person I tried it with was a bit different then.
I think we should ask the person before you do anything different like this and ask her how it feels when you try it
[–]nocapjack 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
good for you. most ppl like it.
[–]PM_M3_PUPPIES -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
You like it when they suck on your clit?
[–]nocapjack -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
don’t have one, just never had any girl say they didn’t like a lil suck. the suck lick combo is effective. obviously ur not gonna just latch on to a clit (though probably not obvious for the men in this sub, who by nature of being in this sub, have no idea what they’re doing in any domain related to women)
[–]PM_M3_PUPPIES 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I don’t want men reading that comment and thinking they should suck a clit. A little one second suck should be fine but it’s a weird ass feeling when it’s any longer than that. Gotta be extra specific on this sub bc there is a lot of dudes on here that don’t know what they are doing.
[–]sneakypedia 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
why are you getting downvoted
these boys don't know when good advice is here
[–]PM_M3_PUPPIES 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
These guys rather take advice from men on how to please a woman instead of an actual woman that can tell them what we actually like.
[–]yvngjiffy703 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So they should just lick it then?
Lick and finger combo is the best
[–]nocapjack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
your own personal opinion does not reflect anyone else’s opinion. i know girls who like a long suck. who are you to try to be the definitive source on what girls like, considering our respective personal experiences
[–]PM_M3_PUPPIES 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s fine. I know a lot of girls that complain about the sucking. I’m a woman, I speak to a lot of women about their sexual experiences. I’m giving general advice.
[–]BuffedLars -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well that's just like your opinion. Also he is obviously gonna ask her before he does it and ask if it is enjoyable. If it is not enjoyable then she can just say no more or whatever.
I've sucked on a woman's clit, asked how she liked it, done it the way she likes and made her cum. So every woman is different.
But anyway the main answer to OP question is to ask what she likes. SImple as that.
It’s my opinion and many other women’s opinion lmao. And no, he is “obviously” not gonna ask before he does anything. Do you know how many men don’t ask before they do anything? Why do you think so many women don’t cum when they have sex with men. So many of y’all don’t want the truth but it’s the reality. Look my feedback right now, I’m a woman telling it like it is and I’m getting downvoted lol.
[–]YetzirahToAhssiah 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Use very light contact with the clit. Ask her what she likes.
[–]SinSlayer 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ages... relevant and important information...
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eat her out. Eat her out. Eat her out.
[–]Efficient-Impress-75 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eat plant based. Thank me later
[–]iamethgod 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only she can tell you how…
Hire her a male prostitute.
[–]the-dan-man 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have a lot of stamina, toys, be very experienced, talk dirty, fancy lubes, know her kinks, get kinky, set the mood with candles and music and dim lights, be sexy yourself, make her feel sexy, be very patient in making sure she gets off many times and probably a drug like Viagra or something so you last longer etc.
[–]4ktwhoyoulove -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pass her to me
[+]Estropelic -7 points-6 points-5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is the most stupidest sub ever. What kind of retarded. This whole damn sub is just redic. Guys, chill the hell out and relax, period. Farewell forever.
[–]nocapjack 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
no pussy does crazy shit to a man
[–]tylerfromdowntown 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
tease her
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Internet is full of very accurate advices on that topic. I can give you some general tips:
- remember about long foreplay, insert your P when she will be all wet and begging
- take care of every part of her body
- don't forget to use your voice
- be both gentle and rough
- play with your touch
- change the pace, be slow and fast
- experiment with your techniques, look at her reactions
- many girls like to be dominated by fierce male in bed
- push/pull with giving her the pleasure
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