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surferguy999 · 2022-02-11T00:42:21+00:00

1) Talking to and seducing women is a skill 2) Any skill can be improved with practice

1 and 2 are a lot easier if you have the foundational skills:

confidence
fit body /r/fitness
fashion /r/malefashionadvice
grooming /r/malegrooming
speaking skills /r/seduction

Each of the foundational skills can be built up individually.

LeHeman · 2022-02-11T02:15:26+00:00

Go find your limit instead of complaining with this bitch ass attitude. How do you know youre not gonna dunk if you dont try and reach your limit. And why does this feel like your just venting to the universe about someone selling fairytales, instead of replying to this one dude who triggerred you in the first place.

2022-02-11T05:57:29+00:00

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2022-02-11T08:13:12+00:00

Well I hate to say that we all want to be the person who girls love and we wanna mold as per their preferences rather than staying true at our own core. Why you have to be someone else? Why you have to always think about the perfect line and word? Why you want to be with the girl who is just seeing an illusion of your personality that you made up after watching a video of a pickup artist titled "How to double your dating game"?

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-02-11T06:25:30+00:00

What if yourself is an unattractive chode? Then you most definitely don't want to be yourself do you?

RProgrammerMan · 2022-02-11T01:36:03+00:00

I think there’s truth on both sides. Not a binary one side is right one side is wrong. If you practice basketball you can get much better than when you first started, often much better than you thought possible. But you can practice all day long and still you won’t be the next Lebron James because you don’t have the genetics. But it would be a shame to get discouraged because you’re not gonna be the next superstar.

Hmmkey · 2022-02-11T08:57:55+00:00

Ok you win the victim trophy of the day 🏆 congratulations. On to another day of being a child. ✊🏻

Alive-Doughnut2345 · 2022-02-11T03:54:35+00:00

Here’s the solution.

STOP PUTTING SEX ON A PEDASTAL

thelambofdeth · 2022-02-10T23:37:56+00:00

The "just be yourself" chit is pure cope and helps no one.

5_7pickup · 2022-02-10T23:57:15+00:00

Theres so much platitude advice on the internet these days. Almost all of it is cope.

Men read platitude advice like be yourself and they feel good about themselves without any actionable changes in their lives.

Platitudes are useless. If you want to improve your dating life then you need to take real action.

And no going to the gym doesnt count. As if its that easy.

LongLiveMacdre · 2022-02-11T01:57:18+00:00

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LongLiveMacdre · 2022-02-10T23:27:31+00:00

Your version of reality depends on your beliefs!

So speak for yourself.

What have you done to improve?

Nothing…

It’s not about you.

Women don’t owe you sex. So if you want sex from women you need to add value to their lives.

I though the same before.

Then read dating books, videos, talked to some people and got sex.

Now I’m just trying to maximize my pussy potential by more self improvement.

Only losers think like the way your thinking now.

It’s not hard to have sex. Do your part of improving your social skills and your Gucci?

Or get a hooker if you look at women as sex objects..

tonstermits69 · 2022-02-11T06:16:44+00:00

Negative af bro

2022-02-11T10:04:41+00:00

Well, at least educate men to be able to get decent-looking girl, who is not crazy. Definitely not everyone is designed for regular hookups. Although, most of the cases is that men have completely no clue what women really like, and they have many harmful beliefs about the sexual relation. Also they are terrified of being turned down, which may always happen.

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