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letsgetrandy · 2022-01-28T23:49:47+00:00

It's a fact of life... some women will just be petty about height. But most will say that they prefer a tall man, yet find themselves perfectly happy with a shorter guy who is confident, smart, and successful.

ExquisiteGrowth · 2022-01-29T00:30:10+00:00

I’m 5’4” bro, don’t even worry about the things you cannot control.

If you’re dealing with a girl that thinks height is super important, you should leave her alone anyway.

Equivalent_Speaker26 · 2022-01-28T23:52:21+00:00

It is pretty annoying being short but it's not that big an impairment. Work on what you can.

Here's the superpower that you have: You're probably a mesomorph, which means your body will get muscular with just a little bit of heavy lifting.

Weight train regularly, you will bulk up, and girls will prefer you over taller guys.

RomanH101 · 2022-01-29T01:09:21+00:00

As a guy who’s 5’9 I always say if you’re short you had better be a short muscular, badass with confidence and good fashion sense.

The reality is most women couldn’t care less about the actually height metrics. What women REALLY want is to feel protected & SAFE.

I’ve never had any issues dating because despite being shorter, I’ve also always been taller than all the women I’ve dated. Plus the fact that I lift weights & have a good stocky physique & wear clothes that show it, has always meant women have felt safe around me.

Being chill and confident with women so they never sense any insecurity (which I used to have a lot of) goes a long way. It won’t hurt to start training in a martial art to get some confidence too (like Bjj or Boxing).

It’ll only be an issue if you make it an issue. That said, DO THE WORK. You can’t be short & fat, or short & skinny and expect to have a wide variety of options with women. Let alone short & insecure.

BrummieAMN19 · 2022-01-29T06:32:05+00:00

5”9 guy with a triple digit laycount here, it doesn’t really matter as much as you think. I’ve never found it to be an issue with girls if I’m being honest. There’s plenty of girls that won’t care or will prefer you.

talionrayon · 2022-01-29T15:56:15+00:00

Tell them you that you whish you were shorter to see them coconuts in different angles, you know what I mean xD. I say that all the time and they always burst out laughing. In all actuality, it's not that women hate shorter men, they just don't want them to feel insecure about their height. Happy coconut snipping fam :D

alpine_bl3 · 2022-02-01T01:51:42+00:00

I'm 5'4 (165cm), doesn't matter. To some it may do, never really got in my way. If it comes up, make a joke and show it doesn't bother you (you need to internalise this too).

Pretty much every girl I've been with has been taller than me. I even tell them it's fine to wear heels, I really don't care.

Stop caring about it, then it won't be an issue... trust me!

thelambofdeth · 2022-01-29T00:35:01+00:00

Height is like big boobs on a woman...it's nice but it's just auxiliary. Looks, confidence, status, and many other components are more important. Especially in terms of a relationship. As long as you're taller than her it's fine. I say this as a guy that 6'3.

Fishrage105 · 2022-01-29T13:08:52+00:00

It would only be a really big problem if you make it so in head. My colleague is same height as you, but he is full of life and he banged some really hot chicks. Do what you can train, be healthy, have some other values. Lower height is better thing that some serious medical condition. Do with what you got brother. We are all humans, we are not meant to be perfect

sheepboy8804 · 2022-01-29T13:58:03+00:00

Contrary to popular belief shorter guys get more pussy.https://www.jsm.jsexmed.org/article/S1743-6095(15)30861-4/fulltext30861-4/fulltext) . Its not your height you should change dude its your attitude.

verticalstars · 2022-01-29T14:01:03+00:00

Wear shoes that have a bit of a heel/lift if it helps you feel better. I dont do this but women do this all the time. Wearing heels, makeup for face, pushups etc.

5_7pickup · 2022-01-29T01:01:54+00:00

Im 5 6 and a half. I still find success with women. Go read my field reports.

Kevinserj · 2022-01-28T23:48:50+00:00

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