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[–][deleted] 61 points62 points63 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
They reply? 95% of girls will simply leave you on read
[–]JZheng03 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
nah, they added me
[–]pokemonpokemonmario[🍰] 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Say
Who this ? 👀
More than likely a scam bot or accidental add.
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s always porn bots for me. Quite annoying. Never had a real one hit me up…what is it like? What are girls like? They make me scared to be myself, that’s all I know about them. Like they’re hostiles. Love feels like a game of espionage, which is fun in it’s own right, but it’s definitely the right way to go about girls, that gets the “Asshole” label
[–]flipk3k 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If they make you feel uncomfortable to be yourself, then you're either thinking too much into it/ valuing her worth over yourself, or she's just not the one for you. Don't stress it, find another.
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. It’s crazy what 170 days can do, I’m already on the path you describe. Even realized “I’m WAY overthinking this”. Feels good, man. Man will never understand a woman’s mind fully, and women will never understand a man’s mind fully. C’est la Vie
[–]JZheng03 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
like I said, I don't use snap, I prefer gaming in person
[–]mentaldetoxx 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You gotta use the medium bro; send pictures! Makes the convo way more interesting. Example: when I add a girl on snapchat from Tinder, I'll usually hit them with "Hey *girls name*, it's *my name* your latest Tinder hunk" followed by a selfie captioned with "Just verifying that I'm not secretly 80 years old or 400 lbs" this usually prompts her to send you a selfie which I then use to make some compliment, remark, etc and then just take it from there.
[–]anthony-2003 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Usually the only thing you can go off of is there name. So be like "is ____ your real name"? Or just start something off of it. Most likely it wont lead anywhere but that's something that I've found that you can use.
[–]JZheng03 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
that's clever, imma steal it👍👏
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yo bro I’ve never been on Snapchat, does it help you get chicks?
[–]JZheng03 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dunno, like I said, I don't use it either. I prefer gaming in person
[–]succcondese 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
yeah it depends on the age group you are in. it is usually is used by people from the ages 15-25 years old. in my experience it is my main way to contact girls online but I'm only 18
[–]LandscapeClear1630 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
shit, i'm old asf
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wouldn't Instagram or Tinder be better?
[–]succcondese 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
nah this is the best app to flirt with women more heavily. it is al very secure because text messages dissapear after reading and you can see when somebody screenshots the chat. this security makes it more comfortable for girls to talk their minds and flirt more compared to apps like instagram. it is also a great app to receive nudes with when you are talking dirty with a girl. but like I said it is more commenly used by younger people (15-25), so it depends on your age.
[–]Exmerus 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
used to like 8 years ago when it was full pictures. Since they introduced text messaging... not that helpful
[–]CompetitionFair7686 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
You get to know her, you ask questions, you share your experiences and opinions on what the other person is saying, make statements, share your life perspective,…
[–]JZheng03 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
about what?😂 hey what's your fav food?
That's normal?
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Send pics of what you are currently doing with text, this makes a conversation automatically. Then she sends pics and you can ask stuff etc. If you wanna turn it sexual and you are muscular, send some pics of your body or whatever (but be sure the mood is there). I’ve got many nudes and lingerie shots in return this way
Ah, fair enough
[–]LandscapeClear1630 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I needed this lolz
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
The point of talking with a girl is connecting over communalities, finding a similar sense of humour, seeing if you enjoy interacting with each other. You talk about what you do with your life, what your dreams are, what aspirations you have, what food you like sure why not…
If you are attracted to a girl shouldn’t you be interested in her life? or is she just an object for you?
[–]JZheng03 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I know how to carry a conversation, I was just asking how to start one on snap without making it seem random. I got enough info from the other comments but I appreciate the opinion.
[–]warpus 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Star talking about the aesthetics of ancient Greek architecture /s
[–]SilkTouchm 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
The point of talking with a girl is connecting over communalities, finding a similar sense of humour, seeing if you enjoy interacting with each other.
I thought the point was to get laid.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
If you only want to get laid you just hire a prostitute.
[–]SilkTouchm 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
That's illegal, sketchy and expensive.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Illegal in your country ok.
Anyway, with normal women you actually have to get to know them.
[–]SilkTouchm 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I don't find that to be the goal itself.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Semantics. The point of talking with a girl is to see if you connect. And if you connect then sex comes. If your argument is that the end ultimate goal of talking is sex ok. But people talk to see if they actually enjoy each other’s company. If you are gonna argue about semantics, then yes you are right, i don’t care that’s not my point
[–]XtaySama 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How do you end up ''connecting'' and that leading to sex ? Like that just gets me friendzoned ?
[–]L1NE867 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just pretend you’re on a blind date honestly, Snapchat is a really good way to get personal with someone really quickly if used correctly. Just treat it as you would with any social media with the exception that you don’t know much about them.
[–]JZheng03 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I never went on a blind date
how do you use it correctly? lolz
[–]nikgos 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why would you add back someone who added you from quick add in the first place? I honestly don't see the point. They could be on the other side of the world. I assume the people that chat with complete strangers from quick add are those that are bored af and are looking for a way to pass time bc the chances that you live near each other and on top of that, you both find each other attractive are close to zero. I don't think this has anything to do with talking to girls on snap.
[–]JZheng03 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
nope, this ain't the case for me. Most girls I add on quick add are friends of my friends and they usually live in the same town as me.
[–]nikgos 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You got mutual friends so that's a pretty good start. Just send them a few proper snaps instead of texts and they'll probably respond with the same so you know what they look like and decide whether you wanna keep talking to them or not.
[–]theindian007 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Commenting on their stories are a good way to make conversation.
I would when they actually post one
[–]2udaylatif 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Send a D pic and ask if they like
[–]AtCloseRange94 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Be hot
DW, got that covered ;)
[–]Thejade1987 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I blocked a guy who added me earlier because he sent me professional pictures of some guy and wouldn't verify himself holding a knife and fork because he was in the middle of a wank. Bye Dai. Just ask them who they are, if you know them, what they're up to and just try and find common ground.
[–]JZheng03 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
😂😂😂 This is the funniest shit I heard
[–]Thejade1987 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wish I screenshot it but I blocked him and lost all the messages now hah
[–]saryiahan -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Lol just talk to them. I give girls my snap all the time. I only give my number to girls I want a real relationship with.
[–]JZheng03 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Wow, you are so cool. I wanna be just like you one day.
Homeless guy: How do I get off the streets?
You: Lol, just get a house. I buy houses all the time. I only buy mansions when I see one that I want to live in.
[–]LandscapeClear1630 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
niaahhahahah
[–]2udaylatif -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Chill out man. You are over reacting for real.
[–]saryiahan -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You’re the one that ask how. You are getting no where by standing on the sidelines. Nice try there trying to bait people by attempting to compare something that’s not even relevant to what I’m taking about. All you did was show everyone your insecurities
[–]JZheng03 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah, alright dude we get it, you're smothered in pussy 24/7 😂
[–]huqs-for-drugs -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
IMO guys that use Snapchat are a red flag and most likely have commitment issues.
[–]b_a_d_r0b0t -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be hot, white and tall. Then you don’t even have to say anything.
[–]cronasminate -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I literally only use the app with people I know in real life.
That's literally what it's for. It's not meant to be a dating app.
but people still use it like it is
[–]cronasminate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I really can't see it being a viable dating app unless you are meeting them off of Tinder and just using Snapchat as a messaging app. That or you connect with random people off of your contact list. That's not really dating since dating apps let you connect with cold leads from the more that more like reconnecting where you work off warm leads.
[+]eggpudding389 -10 points-9 points-8 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You need to get professional photos.
[–]JZheng03 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
eh? what are you on about?
[+]eggpudding389 -10 points-9 points-8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Your online game sucks bro
[–]JZheng03 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
sure...🤨go on, enlighten me
[–]madmanmat 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't know. I don't use it. I think using the dating apps and Instagram are enough.
I've talked to my young adult nephew. From my perspective, Snapchat is for friends to laugh at others with. It's a bullying app. Maybe I'm wrong, but I have no idea why you would use it. If a girl asks for your snap, I feel like she wants to make fun of you with girl friends. Her insta is a public profile and her number is what you need because its personal to her.
[–]2udaylatif 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I never thought of it that way. Snapchat seems like a private messenger app since messages disappear either after read or within 24 hours after read. It also shows you if someone screenshots you. For that reason I like to get Snapchats. You can get laughed at by her friends off text without you knowing. She can even screenshot without your knowledge. At least with Snap you have a heads up.
[–]madmanmat 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s a totally fair point. Never thought of it like that. Especially the known screenshot part. Like I said, I never used snapchat
[–]yeahitskeah 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
theres this thing people do where they make a private story and only put one person in it
well i think he did that for me so i did it for him. this was maybe a month and a half ago and now im just waiting for him to text me hey so i can say "took you long enough"
[–]JZheng03 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
he could be waiting for you
[–]yeahitskeah 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
ive thought about that too but the way i post is more directly to him and his is more like this could be for any number of people
the fact that im not sure and that im usually the one to make a first move and fail is why i haven't went in yet..
Just do it and if he asks or makes it weird, you could always play it off as "Wanted to see how you're getting on" in like a platonic way.
I mean, that's usually how it goes isn't it? Gotta make sure you friendzone him first if he's thinking of doing it to you.
[–]yeahitskeah 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
also thought about that and not just him but like complimenting someone that i dont know but know of online. i think its may seem kinda weird just this person that you dont normally talk to wanting to talk to you all of a sudden
[–]Ok-Bobcat1571 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
okie, im adding you rn
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If its quick add and they dont snap first its most likely a bot. But when online dating I prefer snap because you can see what they looklike and its easier to find things to talk about when she has things in the background
[–]Indianbro 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you send selfies, try and get a streak going, post stories conveying a high value life style, trust me this will work once you start getting hella girls watching your story, they get addicted to it. And then the right ones will start texting you back about your story, then you are in control and can invite to hang out and make plans. This is better because it will give you options the more girls that watch your story, so you are in abundance, and come off as non-needy. The snap game takes effort and work, but will pay off
[–]nu_a_okpa 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just send a pic of u with ye middle finger up going fuck you die trust it always works
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