Whats your opinion on paying for a girl during an instant-date, specifically for day game? Lets pretend you had a good interaction with a girl during the approach, and you ask her to grab a coffee with you right then and there, do you offer to pay for the coffee? Or is it too early and you both pay yourself? Sometimes during the approach I will ask a girl to help me with something. For instance, finding a christmas present for my aunt while i just happen to be shopping. Would you think it would be a good idea to offer to take her out to coffee and pay since shes been so helpful to me? imagine saying something like "Thanks, you've been really helpful. My aunt will sure love this cinnamon flavored toilet seat you suggested. I was gunna grab some coffee from the cafe right next door. Since you've been so helpful to me, I'd love to treat you to some as well. How does that sound?"

Does this sound like a decent way of going about things? It at least implies a frame that she earned a 'date' wit you.

What do you usually do for instant dates?