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pokemonpokemonmario · 2021-12-09T10:41:53+00:00

Be seen attracting other women and do not pursue her at all.

mysterious-puzzlebox · 2021-12-09T12:27:20+00:00

Sounds like it’s over OP and you’re acting needy. The more needy you act the more you’ll drive her away. People can be like that, lose interest in an instant and it doesn’t matter how long you dated either. Your best bet (which you won’t certainly do) is never text her again and find someone else. Instead you’ll think this over and over and reach out and been more needy and push her further and further away. Good luck

DesdinovaSuperstar · 2021-12-09T12:53:48+00:00

Let me ask you this question... Do you enjoy wasting your time dragging out the end of relationships? Do you enjoy spending weeks or months being frustrated and confused about why your relationship isn't doing so well?

Life is short and there's no point in wasting your time trying to revive something that's half dead. When you first see signs of a relationship failing, your best bet is to end it as soon as possible. The sooner you end it, the less time you spend frustrated, worried, and heartbroken. When the relationship became long distance, that's when you should have ended it. There are way too many single women out there to spend your time trying to keep "that one". Find a woman who is excited to spend her time with you instead of spending time with one that isn't putting in the effort.

AelfredRex · 2021-12-09T12:42:43+00:00

Distance is the problem. Solid relationships will end up with you being with her daily, not once every month or so for a weekend hook-up. I'd move on.

Eobardthawne89 · 2021-12-09T14:23:25+00:00

Yeah give that up. I’m sure she has moved on with someone else. Trust me I had the same experience with females in my life. Just take it on the chin.

cvikl7 · 2021-12-09T13:45:13+00:00

Don't listen to these comments OP. You can make LD work easily (as easy as a LD can be).

Talk to your girl, how you two stand, what do you want from this long term.

To minimise the distance try to do facetime sex, movie nights/ watch a series together etc. Obviously try to see eachother as much as possible.

Also a big one.. there's no need to talk everyday. You can talk everyother day and it might actually be better.

In the end of the day if you really like there's no reason to tell her that and try make it work

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-12-09T14:49:09+00:00

Long distance relationship don’t work. Find a girl that isn’t long distance

SummerEarly · 2021-12-09T16:19:50+00:00

Congratulations you’ve finally have experience what’s all women are like. Once they’re bored they’ll leave your bum ass unless you’re rich or a celebrity. Word of advice. Work on yourself become famous and someone she can’t ignore. Probably won’t help you get her back but you’ll have other girls chasing after you so win-win.

quantumactual · 2021-12-09T16:53:28+00:00

Pull back, don’t contact her. If she reaches out, take your time getting back to her. Set up a time to see her if she reaches out. It’s likely she’s already chatting up a new guy, so I’d suggest you start dating yourself. Sorry brother, this happens all the time though.

gangoni · 2021-12-09T19:54:06+00:00

She getting dicked, just not by you.

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