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Dakessian · 2021-12-05T20:11:58+00:00

"It’s cool, I’ll see you around.” And never txt back.

froze_gold · 2021-12-05T19:57:03+00:00

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JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-12-05T20:08:03+00:00

Women flake and cancel last minute because they are raised to be people pleasers. So they hate to disappoint someone to their face. So when she enthusiastically agreed to your date, she was thinking, "okay I don't have to disappoint him by saying no, so when the day of the date comes, I will either flake or make up a silly excuse last minute and then disappear so I don't have to deal with his disappointment".

There is nothing to respond to. Let's face it, it's just your ego feeling embarrassed that is making you pretend you don't care and you are no fazed by it. It's like if you were on a hike and you sprained your ankle, you would probably tell your friends you are okay and you can continue although you are in excruciating pain, just to avoid the supposed embarrassment of admitting you fucked up. You would rather risk a much worse injury by continuing hiking as normal just to avoid feeling embarrassed. That's your ego at work.

Instead acknowledge that you were not as exciting and arousing to her in the first place and vow to either solve this mistake or more on with your life and find another girl who is actually interested in you.

froze_gold · 2021-12-05T19:04:30+00:00

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RPslimjim · 2021-12-05T20:05:08+00:00

The best answer is the one you can come with yourself. Imagine you are a busy man. You have a mission, you workout, you try to spend time with friends and family. You decided to sacrifice some of your precious time to meet a girl. She cancel, you get that time back, you can do your stuff in the end. How do you react?

Always react from a place of abundance. Personally, I wouldn't even read her second answer.

alikebabay · 2021-12-05T19:30:29+00:00

Translated from feminise: I am sorry = I am sorry, someone better hit me up. But you are close third, fourth

I am sorry, can we do it another day (then suggests another day) = I am sorry, someone better hit me up. But you are close second.

So, no action is necessary. If you respond further, you agree for third, fourth or worse place in her rotation.

willgo-waggins · 2021-12-05T20:09:06+00:00

I actually just make clear that I am going on with my plans/life anyway and let her stew in the fact that I have other - and possibly better - options and am not at all dependent on her or her actions.

froze_gold · 2021-12-05T20:12:44+00:00

Cool.

That's all

Visualize_ · 2021-12-05T20:42:52+00:00

Dude who cares, why do you want to try to stick it to her and make it known you are "unfazed" by it because this just screams the opposite. Like your theoretical response sounds salty as fuck.

You could just leave her on read and wait for her to hit you up which slightly plays games because it leaves ambiguity if you were okay with it or not, or you can just say "no worries, let me know when your schedule frees up"

Murky_Kaleidoscope35 · 2021-12-05T21:23:11+00:00

She either did have legit reason to cancel, but if you make it seem like you don’t care without sounding arrogant you can simply say you can reschedule for a later time and change the topic. If she does it a second time that’s when you can call it quits because you know she’s really not interested but has a hard time setting boundaries and saying no.

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